If you'd get involved in SM activities with your lover.

I definitively would get whiped. I wouldn't feel like hurting her. + i had a semi watching Ash from Evil Dead getting his head banged hard on the wall by his zombie girlfriend.

edit : if you have any SM-related anecdote, feel free to share.

tous les gouts sont dans la nature ;)

this reminds me of "gasping"

that's really fucking strange

i say "whip or whiped".

Now if you include gasping to the equation, it sets up a new deal.

I would gasp rather than being gapsed.

i'd rather whip. but i don't think either way would really arouse me in any way.

Both.

Hmm, probably whipped.

  On 10/31/2009 at 12:53 AM, Babar said:

I definitively would get whiped. I wouldn't feel like hurting her. + i had a semi watching Ash from Evil Dead getting his head banged hard on the wall by his zombie girlfriend.

 

 

edit : if you have any SM-related anecdote, feel free to share.

Awww.

lol

We would place the whip on a podium and contemplate it's meaning and discuss gender roles, then we'd both orgasm with out any physical contact.

OHGOD HOGODOHGODREADTHERULESIM CUMMIIIIIIIIIIIIIIINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

both of course.

i would be the whipper.

im switch, enjoy both

...Both

  On 10/31/2009 at 4:53 AM, thanksomuch said:

i would be the whipper.

at first...

Mrs. Dob and I enjoy both giving and receiving the occasional tastefully-timed assslap, so extrapolating to full on s&m I'd presume we'd both indulge a bit in each.

  On 10/31/2009 at 6:13 PM, dr lopez said:

  On 10/31/2009 at 6:08 PM, sneaksta303 said:

Man, my ex was fucked about this. I was never into pain but man this bitch was. She wanted me to smack the shit out of her face, choke her, pull hair HARD, but in order for me to do this, it was almost like I had to become a method actor, in which case the role was impossible to shed immediately after, meaning after sex, I was a total fucking asshole.

still acting?

lol well... whoops.

we're on decent terms. Nowadays she comes and blazes with me a couple times a week but the relationship stops there.

  On 10/31/2009 at 6:23 PM, Bob Dobalina said:

Mrs. Dob and I enjoy both giving and receiving the occasional tastefully-timed assslap, so extrapolating to full on s&m I'd presume we'd both indulge a bit in each.

no biting?

  On 10/31/2009 at 6:23 PM, Bob Dobalina said:

Mrs. Dob and I enjoy both giving and receiving the occasional tastefully-timed assslap, so extrapolating to full on s&m I'd presume we'd both indulge a bit in each.

Marv approves.

  On 10/31/2009 at 2:34 AM, takeshi said:

  On 10/31/2009 at 1:39 AM, Yegg said:

Hmm, probably whipped.

 

What would be your "safe word", Yegg?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

"Holocaust"

Do you have one?

  On 10/31/2009 at 6:52 PM, Yegg said:

 

"Holocaust"

 

Do you have one?

No, but only because I'm always the one doling out the punishment.

My safe word is "call an ambulance."

mine's "go on", and inversely when i say "stop it" i get my flesh whipped hard.

Causes of Masochism and Sadism

* Learning Theory- conditioning; a little boy is being spanked over his mothers knee and his penis rubs against her knee and he gets an erection. The child learns to associate pain to sexual arousal; setting up a lifelong career as a masochist (Hyde and DeLamater 430).

Treatments

Surgical- castration and steroatactic neurosurgery

Sadomasochism Today

* Sadomasochism is gaining more popularity.

* There is an S&M themed restaurant in New York that a person can pay $20 to be humiliated by the staff. (i.e. spanking or whipping) (Luck)

this way

i would like to be whipped though i would probably get some kind of sick pleasure from dishing it out. though i don't think i would have the balls to let myself indulge in this pleasure.