Alzado Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 I work with quite a few women. many of them are quite pleasant to be around. and some of them are fantastically organized. but without exception, every single one of them is less capable of tackling the big picture issues. i'm not being sexist. like i said, they are really good at pinning down the details of all the little tasks that accompany a major project. but they just can't seem to contribute anything useful when it comes overall strategy or thinking. when it comes to the larger conceptual issues, i find the men to to be completely engaging while the women tend to slow me down. as a result, i usually end up excluding them from the higher level conversations. could this be a confidence issue that women share? maybe they're used to deferring to men when it comes to important decision making? or are their brains simply not equipped for tasks of this type? Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide Alzado's signature Hide all signatures RIP Farm Eagle Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Masonic Boom Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 Do you really expect any kind of serious answers to this in a venue like this? I would really like to believe that this is a genuine question and not trolling - but I'm really not sure you're going to get any meaningful answers from a forum that seems to make a statement of pride about being "90% male". Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244360 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Z_B_Z Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 oh god, masonic boom, dont take the bait Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244363 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Enter a new display name Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 inb4 feminist replies edit: oops Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244365 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest assegai Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 (edited) fucking Alzado does it again Edited February 16, 2010 by assegai Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244367 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alzado Posted February 16, 2010 Author Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 (edited) no, i'm serious. it's quite frustrating. i root for the women to succeed. i want them to be a part of the process because I think too many men chiming in runs the risk of resulting in a one-dimensional perspective. but the women always end up just spinning their wheels. it's almost cute. but it can be frustrating because we are often under a significant amount of budgetary pressure with very short deadlines. we need to be sharp and efficient. but you just can't count on a woman to be able to identify a solution to a complex problem. for follow through? you bet. the women will see every detail to its end. but they seem to be miserable at conceptualizing broader issues. Edited February 16, 2010 by LOL Alzado Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide Alzado's signature Hide all signatures RIP Farm Eagle Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244370 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Masonic Boom Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 I mean, for a start, why do you frame the question as "WHY are women ... yadda yadda yadda" based on your limited experience. This automatically presupposes a certain kind of answer. Why not ask "ARE women ... yadda yadda yadda" and let people draw their own conclusions? Because I don't agree with your basic assertion in the slightest. There are PEOPLE who are big picture thinkers. There are PEOPLE who are not. I don't know if there's a gender distribution, my personal experience doesn't show any. Since you're only talking about women within one particular organisation, isn't it just as likely that your organisation has a bias that only hires women that fulfill certain roles - as that 50% of the human race somehow lack a certain character trait? Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244372 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fred McGriff Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 in general i try to root for women, i think it's great all the stuff they've been doing in the past few years, really advancing in the work force w/o performing sexual favors, that sort of thing, but there are certain areas that still get me, like how they got tiger woods and pretty much ruined his career. until we can learn to all get along there are just always going to be things like that and such. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244375 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 277: 930-933 Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 90% is social factors, and then there's some differences in cognitive abilities, there's areas where women perform better than men and vice versa. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244377 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Masonic Boom Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 (edited) On 2/16/2010 at 5:25 PM, Z_B_Z said: oh god, masonic boom, dont take the bait Actually, you're right. I walked right into that one. My bad. OK, I'm going to say this and then leave it. Big picture thinking is one of the personality traits measured by the Myers-Briggs personality index. (Myers and Briggs, two psychologists with such adept big picture skills to come up with the whole massive idea of a personality index, coincidentally, are both female.) You can read about it here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers-Briggs_Type_Indicator Some personality types are much rarer than others, but there doesn't seem to be much biological basis for distribution between genders. There are, however, social constucts regarding gender that reward men and women for how closely their personalities and strengths resemble the expected gender constructs. This may shape behaviour and the expression of personality. Edited February 16, 2010 by Masonic Boom Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244378 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alzado Posted February 16, 2010 Author Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 On 2/16/2010 at 5:28 PM, Masonic Boom said: I mean, for a start, why do you frame the question as "WHY are women ... yadda yadda yadda" based on your limited experience. This automatically presupposes a certain kind of answer. Why not ask "ARE women ... yadda yadda yadda" and let people draw their own conclusions? Because I don't agree with your basic assertion in the slightest. There are PEOPLE who are big picture thinkers. There are PEOPLE who are not. I don't know if there's a gender distribution, my personal experience doesn't show any. Since you're only talking about women within one particular organisation, isn't it just as likely that your organisation has a bias that only hires women that fulfill certain roles - as that 50% of the human race somehow lack a certain character trait? I wish you were right, honestly. but i've been working for almost five years now. every single woman I've encountered has completely failed to pull her weight in the visioning stages of a project. and, i hate to say this, but when i know that my competitor is being steered by a woman, i know i've got them beat before i even get started. i know she's going to over think the problem, she's going to let her emotions about market factors act as a barrier to her ability see efficiencies, and she's going to take the competition personally. it happens every time. and you're right that I'm guilty of leading with my conclusion, but i'm fairly certain this is a universal truth. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide Alzado's signature Hide all signatures RIP Farm Eagle Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244379 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rambo Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 women are better at sucking dick, but then are they? Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244380 Share on other sites More sharing options...
xeQYcJWNBz Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 something about left and right side of the brain Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244383 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fred McGriff Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 On 2/16/2010 at 5:34 PM, Masonic Boom said: (Myers and Briggs, two psychologists with such adept big picture skills to come up with the whole massive idea of a personality index, coincidentally, are both female.) yeah that sounds more incidental than coincidental Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244384 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alzado Posted February 16, 2010 Author Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 (edited) On 2/16/2010 at 5:36 PM, triachus said: something about left and right side of the brain well yeah, that's what i'm wondering. there's got to be some sort of physiological cause of the problem, because i've never doubted their work habits or motivation. Edited February 16, 2010 by LOL Alzado Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide Alzado's signature Hide all signatures RIP Farm Eagle Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244385 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Masonic Boom Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 On 2/16/2010 at 5:34 PM, LOL Alzado said: and you're right that I'm guilty of leading with my conclusion, but i'm fairly certain this is a universal truth. Your opinion is no more a universal truth than the idea that male babies prefer blue and female babies prefer pink. The end. Now please stop trolling. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244387 Share on other sites More sharing options...
SR4 Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 these are some incredibly interesting points you have been bringing up LOL Alzado. I wrote a paper on something similar to this for a Sociology class in undergraduate studies. A lot of the conclusions I came to supposed that women simply have differently-aligned brains, chemical interactions, which leads to understanding of certain areas and almost complete ignorance in others. A lot of surveys I researched showed that the introduction of intense education on the subjects women failed to comprehend (such as strategic planning, multi-tasking, and mathematics) was only able to increase their abilities in those fields by a minuscule amount. I think further scholarly research may reveal why women are better overall at cooking whereas men are far better at organization, abstract thinking and logistical planning. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide SR4's signature Hide all signatures Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244389 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alzado Posted February 16, 2010 Author Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 On 2/16/2010 at 5:34 PM, Masonic Boom said: (Myers and Briggs, two psychologists with such adept big picture skills to come up with the whole massive idea of a personality index, coincidentally, are both female.) yeah, but isn't the creation of an index really just the tedious task of interviewing hundreds of subjects and organizing the data that you get from them? i would expect a woman to excel at something like that. i personally wouldn't have the patience for it. but see? good for them. it might not change the world, but it's important work nevertheless. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide Alzado's signature Hide all signatures RIP Farm Eagle Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244390 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Coalbucket PI Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 I've noticed that a lot more women are in positions of responsibility in the years I've been in the workforce, and I really support this kind of progressive thinking in business. One problem I've encountered is that often the only authority women can really hold over men is due to fears that the woman will act irrationally and in many cases openly weep when things go awry. When this works I say bravo madam, but I'm not sure if this is really the proper way to increase profits in the modern market. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244391 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rambo Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 (edited) On 2/16/2010 at 5:40 PM, LOL Alzado said: On 2/16/2010 at 5:34 PM, Masonic Boom said: (Myers and Briggs, two psychologists with such adept big picture skills to come up with the whole massive idea of a personality index, coincidentally, are both female.) yeah, but isn't the creation of an index really just the tedious task of interviewing hundreds of subjects and organizing the data that you get from them? i would expect a woman to excel at something like that. i personally wouldn't have the patience for it. but see? good for them. it might not change the world, but it's important work nevertheless. exactly. Someones got to do it Edited February 16, 2010 by Rambo Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244393 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alzado Posted February 16, 2010 Author Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 I probably should add that I work for a company that specializes in marketing gangbang anal pornography to the hotel industry. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide Alzado's signature Hide all signatures RIP Farm Eagle Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244397 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fred McGriff Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 On 2/16/2010 at 5:40 PM, Smettingham Rutherford IV said: I think further scholarly research may reveal why women are better overall at cooking whereas men are far better at organization, abstract thinking and logistical planning. i think that would depend on the type of cooking... women would excel at following a recipe whereas when big picture on the fly creativity is needed i think a man would be better suited Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244398 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hahathhat Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 (edited) lol azaldo pummels some gentleman with a football, then shakes hands. masonic boom fails to see the larger picture. Edited February 16, 2010 by hahathhat Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244399 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest assegai Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 (edited) Carolla on the difference between men & women in the workplace [youtubehd]0_zA5Tcfp9c[/youtubehd] Edited February 16, 2010 by assegai Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244401 Share on other sites More sharing options...
SR4 Posted February 16, 2010 Report Share Posted February 16, 2010 it would be interesting to have research done on why women are so emotionally volatile. Women crying in my experience has been expected almost daily in the workplace. I think women have to express their frustration with a work task through crying/tantrums than men do, who tend to internalize the frustration and focus that energy upon the task at hand. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide SR4's signature Hide all signatures Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/53482-why-are-women-less-capable-in-some-areas/#findComment-1244402 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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