are women freakier than men?

I think one gender can be as freaky as the other.

As for xxx's post,thats an insane but really bloody interesting story.The fragility of the human mind is a fascinating subject especially when it comes to coping mechanisms and at what point these mechanisms fail.

Personally,I know of one case where a 'recreational'cocaine user would have such mind blowing orgasms while high,she'd black out completely,and said it was like 'leaving the planet' for a minute and a half.

i've yet to meet someone who freaks me out. in anyway possible.

normal people are kind of freaky.

  On 4/23/2010 at 11:33 AM, xxx said:

  On 4/23/2010 at 10:18 AM, ms-dos said:

  On 4/23/2010 at 9:37 AM, xxx said:

I was just thinking about this thread and trying to operationally define "freaky". In one limited sense, the climax for women is far freakier than any man could ever comprehend. I didn't want to hear this but what can you do?--my sister-in-law is having dramatics with her man and one of her friends told my wife that my s-i-l avoids sex because when it does happen and she climaxes, she gets too emotional and cries about the loss of her dad (which was in 2003--just sayin', normally 7 years is a good "crust" over the grief but she must not be dealing with something completely).

 

It triggered a memory for me of a girlfriend who started crying after a huge, bed soaking orgasm and I didn't know what the fuck to do and she was all "just hold me really tight". It was weird and I was just quiet until she returned to normal. Other women, including my wife will be all "stop it! don't touch me!" post-diddle and she gets really quiet and pensive.

 

i usually took this sort of reaction to be a product of abuse, or at least a sign of a serious sexual hang-up. i guess this isn't a fair assumption? do you think the female orgasm causes a higher degree of spreading activation (or whatever), with all sorts of nasty engrams getting ticked and brought to the fore of the emotional brain? that's unfortunate, but it makes good sense to me. personally, i'm pretty zen after i'm done. if i use orgasms for anything other than the sensation itself, it's actually to give myself a quick reset and refocus on whatever i'm doing. jacking off lets me do great things.

 

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It's like coming for women is the same as smoking Salvia or something--you just aren't sure what you'll get but it will be out of this world.

 

fucking lol

Whoa, what a post. Yes, yes, and yes--I totally appreciate bringing up the concept of engrams and abuse and it's there, somewhere, in my opinion. Girlfriend who cried--her dad recently was convicted of soliciting a minor for sex online. Turns out the family knew he did that shit all the time in his little "basement den" with the computer. The line doesn't seem too long between his fuckery and the possibility of "doing her wrong" at some point. Secondly, and this is still so fucked and bombed that I have a hard time thinking about it.

 

My sister-in-law moved into her dead dad's house and we used life insurance/retirement payout money to completely remake the house and try to conceal the fact that he had accidentally electrocuted himself while changing his furnace filter and laid bloated and rotting on the utility floor for three days--mind you, the huge energy draw caused by him getting shocked by that capacitor tripped the circuit breaker and killed the power and thus the air conditioner. It was August 20th, 2003. One of the hottest summers on record for Kansas City--100-105 F for weeks straight. I'll never forget that fucking smell and my wife and my sis-in-law going fucking apeshit and the terrible embalming job done on him.....

*takes a deep breath. Cocking Christ, this life*

Anyway, her boyfriend at the time was doing some renovating-type shit in the master bedroom and noticed a wire in a strange place going up into the ceiling. By blind coincidence, he happens to be an electrician and knew this was strange (I wouldn't have thought twice about it). He traced the wire and it went through ceiling and terminated behind the smoke detector in the bathroom. He opened the detector and there was a miniature "spy camera" installed in the detector, which happened to be right above the shower and toilet. I also found a suitcase full of vanilla Vivid porn, some condoms, Viagra--all that shit is nothing strange but in this case was also a device that has a screen with a 10 LED line with one end labeled "normal" and the other "stress" When you turn it on, a little microphone starts measuring the sounds around it and I guess the point is that it would detect if a person was lying or if they were in distress but were concealing it (?) I don't know and don't really want to know. Even the Bible says "let the dead bury the dead" and that's how I look at it. My wife cannot talk about it and we just threw the thing away. It looked a lot like this except a little bigger and a plastic bubble shield around the lens:

 

Sometimes I just get so overwhelmed by how the brain is simulataneously miraculous at being resilient in the case of traumatic brain injury i.e. neuronal "re-routing", compensation from other cerebral divisions, etc. yet completely fucking brittle and having no resiliency when it comes to "mind" injury like abuse or adverse experiences.

shit it's one thing coming to terms with a loved one's unfortunate and untimely demise, but to also get your head around the discovery of them being some kind of predator/deviant at the same time! dark stuff.

are you saying the camera in the shower was to spy on his daughters(your wife and SIL)?

  On 4/23/2010 at 11:33 AM, xxx said:

Girlfriend who cried--her dad recently was convicted of soliciting a minor for sex online. Turns out the family knew he did that shit all the time in his little "basement den" with the computer. The line doesn't seem too long between his fuckery and the possibility of "doing her wrong" at some point. Secondly, and this is still so fucked and bombed that I have a hard time thinking about it.

yeah, i'd imagine that engram triggering would, in most cases, only cascade so much. so having an orgasm probably wouldn't trigger someone's memories of reading anne frank or failing a math class -- at least not with regularity. but daddy-diddling? jesus. that's an event that'll soak her entire brain with permanent grief.

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whaaaaaat

are you people seriously talking about some dianetics bullshit with this engram stuff?

Freaky.

  On 4/24/2010 at 12:05 AM, Boxing Day said:

Freaky.

 

  On 4/23/2010 at 11:57 PM, nene multiple assgasms said:

are you people seriously talking about some dianetics bullshit with this engram stuff?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Engram_%28neuropsychology%29

vs.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Engram_%28Dianetics%29

my mistake, I didn't realize engram was an actual term in psychology.

Such is the deviousness of smellron

  On 4/24/2010 at 6:16 PM, xxx said:

is high-school biology enough for reading that?

If it's not you could try this book first:

It's quite extensive and it even covers the stuff you might have missed during HS biology because you were staring at some girl's tits.

Plus I giggle every time I see the book and change the subtitle to 'Exploding the brain'.

If you are really interested in neuroscience I can forward you some peer-reviewed papers I co-authored.

And you want to go and fight the war, right ?

Huh?

  On 4/26/2010 at 8:09 PM, acidphakist said:

If you are really interested in neuroscience I can forward you some peer-reviewed papers I co-authored.

gimme

  On 4/26/2010 at 8:09 PM, acidphakist said:

If you are really interested in neuroscience I can forward you some peer-reviewed papers I co-authored.

I'm also interested in this.

PM me your email addresses and I shalt forward PDFs.

I almost remember you said : i want to go to iraq and serve as a mercenary. People who publish papers usually don't want to pull on the trigger.

Whatsoever, here is a challenge:

Can you explain me how the man feels ?

I accept your challenge. Based on the photos alone, I assume he doesn't feel much of anything after such catastrophic brain damage.

And you are right. Most people who publish neuroscience papers don't want to pull the trigger.

Some do.

Do you want to read my papers?

  On 4/26/2010 at 9:31 PM, Babar said:

I almost remember you said : i want to go to iraq and serve as a mercenary. People who publish papers usually don't want to pull on the trigger.

 

Whatsoever, here is a challenge:

 

Can you explain me how the man feels ?

I used to work for the parents of a man who had recieved a brain injury like this.the only feelings involved in this type of care and nursing are your own.every notion or fact about cognition and behaviour go straight out of the window.theres just a shell that sleeps erratically and shuffles on the same spot for hours on end,he'll swallow some of the food that you push in his mouth if you keep his jaw closed and shit it out when its digested.Thats it.Thats your lot.No reason,no thought,no interaction.And knowing that there was a young man there before,it just breaks your heart.

my god thats horrible. id rather be dead. so would anyone. why would you keep a person in such a condition alive? it no doubt just prolongs the agony of everyone involved..

Chuck Norris destroyed the periodic table, because Chuck Norris only recognises the element of surprise.

  On 4/26/2010 at 8:05 PM, 277: 930-933 said:

If it's not you could try this book first:

 

 

It's quite extensive and it even covers the stuff you might have missed during HS biology because you were staring at some girl's tits.

Plus I giggle every time I see the book and change the subtitle to 'Exploding the brain'.

much appreciated