relationships vs. getting anything done

lol how did this turn into a discussion on atheism and porn?

smett if i were in a relationship with you

the only thing id get done would be my own life

taken with a length of razor wire looped around my neck and jerking both ends

probably after watching you brush your teeth with the toothpaste i poisoned and toothbrush i peed on

oh' don't end it quite yet cutie pie; u should pm me soon. don't waste yr warm pee on stinky old smettingham, u could pee on my toothbrush, i would let u plees

i'll pee all over tha place bitches!

wat

  On 8/16/2013 at 1:43 AM, Candiru said:

 

  On 8/14/2013 at 7:25 PM, vamos scorcho said:

 

  On 8/14/2013 at 6:08 PM, delet... said:

 

  On 8/14/2013 at 5:58 PM, vamos scorcho said:

Porn is destroying society and appeals to the lowest parts of th human mind. Zero respect for pornographers no matter how they dress their shit up and try to play it cool. Brb I suddenly need to watch Sasha grey get gang banged.

 

But seriously porn separates and devalues relations. Either we become a completely pornographic society open to disgusting group sex or we popularize the idea that porn is uncool and evil. Sinc morality keeps becoming less and less important be ause of cunt motherfucks like Dawkins and hitchens tricking fools into thinking atheism is a priori more intelligent than religion I guess it's better to embrace porn.

 

Maybe atheism is better I didn't need to bring that into this. All I know is that I don't see any atheists railing against porn. I see Christian groups and what that tells me is that religion isn't all bad. Forget it, porn is good. We need to bring back the law of the jungle and stop pretending romance is a thing that matters. The adventure of a relationship can only have less and less value as porn becomes more prevelant not only in the porn, but in entertainment on MTV and in music by ill Wayne, etc. it's all downhill until all images are replaced by gaping assholes. That will be the only remaining entertainment that can satisfy.

 

Religion doesn't equal moral behaviour, religions don't have a monopoly on morality. In fact throughout history in the name of religion the worst of human traits have been allowed free reign.

 

That may be true but I'm merely observing reality... that most atheists support porn on average and view it as free expression. Whereas religious people are concerned with the wide scope of how it will affect society. I'm merely observing what is actually going on. Religious people were probably ahead of the game here, seeing it as obscenity and noting how the more power is given to the idea of porn as "normal," the less closeness there is in human relations and the further society degenerates.

 

None of this would sound "cool" coming out of an atheist's mouth. Thus, even if it isn't even true, it wouldn't even be considered as a possibility. Because many atheists are more concerned about what's cool than what's right.

 

Of course I'm just noting trends, I'm not trying to say that atheism is stupid or wrong, I don't know much about it. I think this is just one of those examples that might possibly instill just a bit of doubt in the mind of a Dawkins, but like I said I don't know jack shit about it beyond what I see people saying on Facebook and TV.

 

 

The problem with porn isn't a moral one, it's a neurological one. It changes the way your brain regulates dopamine. Scrolling through hundreds of images/videos of nice asses gives you unnaturally high dopamine hits that are addictive. It's like being trained to only get off with escalating levels of arousal from images on your screen. Your sexual arousal is basically being hijacked and re-routed to a state that is unbalanced and not ideal. This can lead to sexual dysfunction, anxiety, depression, trouble interacting with others, and brain fog. Only temporarily, though. If you were to stop looking at porn for a month, you'd be surprised how good you feel and porn kind of loses its appeal. And sex will be AWESOME.

 

I'm an atheist, but I realized that porn is detrimental to the people in it and the people who watch it a lot. It dulls the senses.

 

Come on guys. It isn't that simple. You are drawing lines to dots that do not connect.

  On 8/14/2013 at 7:25 PM, vamos scorcho said:

That may be true but I'm merely observing reality... .

 

 

lol

  On 8/16/2013 at 8:15 AM, usagi said:

 

  On 8/14/2013 at 11:50 AM, MadameChaos said:

I had an ex who spent literally all their time on the computer, they told me they were doing work so I respected it even when it meant having to go to social events without them. After a while though I got to understand what work he could/should be doing (I'm doing a similar role in my spare time) and realised that this couldn't possibly account for all the time he was spending on the web. Anyway it turns out he was a hardcore porn addict. We broke up.

 

porn winning out over irl sex makes me go

 

What can I say, people get hooked on the quick fix instead of genuine intimacy.

well, im working as if to save my life right now, and i don't have time for the tediums of a relationship.

i just got a visit the other day by a friend who recently turned into a stalker and it sucked. i sent her away and threatened to call the cops. i could have got laid but then again, my production would be cut by 90% with all the socializing i would be forced to do since i genuinely like killing time. besides, she's a friend of my wife's.

click like if your life's like mine.

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*tries to click the wat button*

wife? you mean ex?

  On 8/16/2013 at 4:01 PM, skibby said:

tediums of a relationship.

You're doing it wrong!

  On 8/16/2013 at 4:50 PM, Timothy Forward said:

 

  On 8/16/2013 at 4:01 PM, skibby said:

 

tediums of a relationship.

You're doing it wrong!

Yup

Y'all just wait until we have lifelike sexbots/virtual reality/holodecks, then the days of internet porn will look like simpler times when people still occasionally had sex with each other.

i think rats act better than most people. just sayin. (had some pest pets)

  On 8/16/2013 at 4:02 PM, luke viia said:

*tries to click the wat button*

  On 8/16/2013 at 5:55 AM, AdieuErsatzEnnui said:

 

  On 8/16/2013 at 1:43 AM, Candiru said:

 

  On 8/14/2013 at 7:25 PM, vamos scorcho said:

 

  On 8/14/2013 at 6:08 PM, delet... said:

 

  On 8/14/2013 at 5:58 PM, vamos scorcho said:

Porn is destroying society and appeals to the lowest parts of th human mind. Zero respect for pornographers no matter how they dress their shit up and try to play it cool. Brb I suddenly need to watch Sasha grey get gang banged.

 

But seriously porn separates and devalues relations. Either we become a completely pornographic society open to disgusting group sex or we popularize the idea that porn is uncool and evil. Sinc morality keeps becoming less and less important be ause of cunt motherfucks like Dawkins and hitchens tricking fools into thinking atheism is a priori more intelligent than religion I guess it's better to embrace porn.

 

Maybe atheism is better I didn't need to bring that into this. All I know is that I don't see any atheists railing against porn. I see Christian groups and what that tells me is that religion isn't all bad. Forget it, porn is good. We need to bring back the law of the jungle and stop pretending romance is a thing that matters. The adventure of a relationship can only have less and less value as porn becomes more prevelant not only in the porn, but in entertainment on MTV and in music by ill Wayne, etc. it's all downhill until all images are replaced by gaping assholes. That will be the only remaining entertainment that can satisfy.

 

Religion doesn't equal moral behaviour, religions don't have a monopoly on morality. In fact throughout history in the name of religion the worst of human traits have been allowed free reign.

 

That may be true but I'm merely observing reality... that most atheists support porn on average and view it as free expression. Whereas religious people are concerned with the wide scope of how it will affect society. I'm merely observing what is actually going on. Religious people were probably ahead of the game here, seeing it as obscenity and noting how the more power is given to the idea of porn as "normal," the less closeness there is in human relations and the further society degenerates.

 

None of this would sound "cool" coming out of an atheist's mouth. Thus, even if it isn't even true, it wouldn't even be considered as a possibility. Because many atheists are more concerned about what's cool than what's right.

 

Of course I'm just noting trends, I'm not trying to say that atheism is stupid or wrong, I don't know much about it. I think this is just one of those examples that might possibly instill just a bit of doubt in the mind of a Dawkins, but like I said I don't know jack shit about it beyond what I see people saying on Facebook and TV.

 

 

The problem with porn isn't a moral one, it's a neurological one. It changes the way your brain regulates dopamine. Scrolling through hundreds of images/videos of nice asses gives you unnaturally high dopamine hits that are addictive. It's like being trained to only get off with escalating levels of arousal from images on your screen. Your sexual arousal is basically being hijacked and re-routed to a state that is unbalanced and not ideal. This can lead to sexual dysfunction, anxiety, depression, trouble interacting with others, and brain fog. Only temporarily, though. If you were to stop looking at porn for a month, you'd be surprised how good you feel and porn kind of loses its appeal. And sex will be AWESOME.

 

I'm an atheist, but I realized that porn is detrimental to the people in it and the people who watch it a lot. It dulls the senses.

 

 

Come on guys. It isn't that simple. You are drawing lines to dots that do not connect.

 

Don't just take my word for it. Look into it yourself.

i used to be so fanciful and free. now all my male juices r constantly drained. cursed, cursed sex plague. my succubus has pruned me shriveled

Well done.

Next on the agenda, children, then you'll really been in the energy desert.

So its almost a year later and I was about to post the same thread again :S

Has anything changed with anybody else?

Anybody find a way to get work done and avoid causing tears in the unfortunate other?

I turn on the synths when the wife is out/away and really finish tracks when I have a weekend for myself. Which preferrably involves taking the gear out to the countryside. We don't talk much about music or music making at home and that's pretty wonderful actually.

lol

My simple trick goes as follows: I only create when she's asleep, which means I only have a few hours of sleep every night. I can't work properly when she's around me so over the years I found this compromise.

I am married to a woman who is as creative and passionate as I am. She is a writer, so for every hour I spend locked away in my music room, she has spent at some point curled away finishing a poem or essay. My output has actually increased since we got married, too.

We don't live together and have separate interests, and she supports anything I want to do that is productive, so I've never felt that our relationship has been an obstacle to my dreams..

I feel like a much bigger threat is spending whole weekends hanging out with friends and drinking/doing fuck all

I also support vamos scorcho and his anti-porn tirade