Guest underscore Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 9:44 AM, ward said: She was talking to me and seeing me more than her boyfriend for a couple of months.... I've lost a good friend. yeh, definitely been there. she was staying at my place pretty much every night, and when i'd ask her why me and her weren't somethin serious she'd say "cause I already have a boyfriend". I've gotten pretty cynical since then and find the entire thing pretty funny now. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118571 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ward Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 how did your situation end? i don't know if mine has, we've tried 'deleting' eachother out of our lives, but then we see eachother in town drunk, argue and end up sleeping together or something just as bad. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118576 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest underscore Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 (edited) On 9/9/2009 at 9:54 AM, ward said: how did your situation end? i don't know if mine has, we've tried 'deleting' eachother out of our lives, but then we see eachother in town drunk, argue and end up sleeping together or something just as bad. one day we just quit hanging out. we didn't run in the same circles really, so it was pretty simple. one solution for you would be to quit getting drunk at spots you know she drinks at as well. as much as you might want, randomly hooking up with her a certain number of times most likely won't change the situation for the better edit: and i'm aware thats quite obvious advice, i'm just sayin! Edited September 9, 2009 by underscore Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118584 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blir Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 (edited) The last few broken relationships I've had ended in restraining orders and prison sentences for the most part. But regardless, I've learned that arson is a pretty good way to erase someone from your life. Them and all their belongings in one fell swoop. Edited September 9, 2009 by Obel Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118589 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ward Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 10:07 AM, underscore said: On 9/9/2009 at 9:54 AM, ward said: how did your situation end? i don't know if mine has, we've tried 'deleting' eachother out of our lives, but then we see eachother in town drunk, argue and end up sleeping together or something just as bad. one day we just quit hanging out. we didn't run in the same circles really, so it was pretty simple. one solution for you would be to quit getting drunk at spots you know she drinks at as well. as much as you might want, randomly hooking up with her a certain number of times most likely won't change the situation for the better edit: and i'm aware thats quite obvious advice, i'm just sayin! yeah, but i keep questioning why else she'd be doing this. she's a lovely person. but then i wonder if she does this kind of shit often at uni or whatever. shit is FUCKED UP. ps. i think i have a vagina. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118591 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest thanksomuch Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 10:19 AM, ward said: ps. i think i have a vagina. wanna scissor? Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118595 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest underscore Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 10:19 AM, ward said: On 9/9/2009 at 10:07 AM, underscore said: On 9/9/2009 at 9:54 AM, ward said: how did your situation end? i don't know if mine has, we've tried 'deleting' eachother out of our lives, but then we see eachother in town drunk, argue and end up sleeping together or something just as bad. one day we just quit hanging out. we didn't run in the same circles really, so it was pretty simple. one solution for you would be to quit getting drunk at spots you know she drinks at as well. as much as you might want, randomly hooking up with her a certain number of times most likely won't change the situation for the better edit: and i'm aware thats quite obvious advice, i'm just sayin! yeah, but i keep questioning why else she'd be doing this. she's a lovely person. but then i wonder if she does this kind of shit often at uni or whatever. shit is FUCKED UP. ps. i think i have a vagina. fucking lol. people are quite complex dude. you might think you know someone... anyways, i'm sure your guys friendship is great, but is it really the best relationship you've ever had with a woman? I mean, is hoping for in the end you two to be a legit couple worth it? look at what shes doing behind her current boyfriends back. what would be the difference if you were her boyfriend? Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118598 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ward Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 10:27 AM, underscore said: On 9/9/2009 at 10:19 AM, ward said: On 9/9/2009 at 10:07 AM, underscore said: On 9/9/2009 at 9:54 AM, ward said: how did your situation end? i don't know if mine has, we've tried 'deleting' eachother out of our lives, but then we see eachother in town drunk, argue and end up sleeping together or something just as bad. one day we just quit hanging out. we didn't run in the same circles really, so it was pretty simple. one solution for you would be to quit getting drunk at spots you know she drinks at as well. as much as you might want, randomly hooking up with her a certain number of times most likely won't change the situation for the better edit: and i'm aware thats quite obvious advice, i'm just sayin! yeah, but i keep questioning why else she'd be doing this. she's a lovely person. but then i wonder if she does this kind of shit often at uni or whatever. shit is FUCKED UP. ps. i think i have a vagina. fucking lol. people are quite complex dude. you might think you know someone... anyways, i'm sure your guys friendship is great, but is it really the best relationship you've ever had with a woman? I mean, is hoping for in the end you two to be a legit couple worth it? look at what shes doing behind her current boyfriends back. what would be the difference if you were her boyfriend? she's assured me this hasn't happened before and she has feelings for me and blah blah blah Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118603 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest analogue wings Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 yes but golden rule: if they cheat with you they will cheat on you Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118606 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blir Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 10:35 AM, analogue wings said: yes but golden rule: if they cheat with you they will cheat on you This is true. And it's the shittiest situation. Because as soon as the person you really care about does it once, even if there's a "good" reason then in the back of your mind if you got together you won't be able to not think about how they could potentially cheat on you. And it can draw a divide between you. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118607 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ward Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 i don't want to hear it though. =[ Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118609 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blir Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 Ah, sorry man. Relationships are nothing but pain unfortunately. In any case, I hope things work out in some way for you mate. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118610 Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaarg Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 10:51 AM, Obel said: Ah, sorry man. Relationships are nothing but pain unfortunately. Was that a emo post? Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide gaarg's signature Hide all signatures www.petergaber.com is where I keep my paintings. I used to have a kinky tumblr, but it exploded. Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118624 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blir Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 12:03 PM, gaarg said: On 9/9/2009 at 10:51 AM, Obel said: Ah, sorry man. Relationships are nothing but pain unfortunately. Was that a emo post? Hah, nah that was me being realistic. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118628 Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaarg Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 12:09 PM, Obel said: On 9/9/2009 at 12:03 PM, gaarg said: On 9/9/2009 at 10:51 AM, Obel said: Ah, sorry man. Relationships are nothing but pain unfortunately. Was that a emo post? Hah, nah that was me being realistic. Come on, dude. I've had two relationships that were disasterous, but still there were so many great moments. Right now there are definitely more pluses than minuses. Depends how you manage things I guess. How old are you? Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide gaarg's signature Hide all signatures www.petergaber.com is where I keep my paintings. I used to have a kinky tumblr, but it exploded. Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118666 Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumpenprol Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 the one cool thing i've found about relationships is the part where my dick goes in stuff Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide lumpenprol's signature Hide all signatures After this I listened to geogaddi and I didn't like it, I was quite vomitting at some tracks, I realized they were too crazy for my ears, they took too much acid to play music I stupidly thought (cliché of psyché music) But I knew this album was a kind of big forest where I just wasn't able to go inside. - lost cloud I was in US tjis summer, and eat in KFC. FUCK That's the worst thing i've ever eaten. The flesh simply doesn't cleave to the bones. Battery ferming. And then, foie gras is banned from NY state, because it's considered as ill-treat. IT'S NOT. KFC is tourist ill-treat. YOU POISONERS! Two hours after being to KFC, i stopped in a amsih little town barf all that KFC shit out. Nice work! So i hope this woman is not like kfc chicken, otherwise she'll be pulled to pieces. -organized confused project Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118668 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blir Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 1:49 PM, gaarg said: On 9/9/2009 at 12:09 PM, Obel said: On 9/9/2009 at 12:03 PM, gaarg said: On 9/9/2009 at 10:51 AM, Obel said: Ah, sorry man. Relationships are nothing but pain unfortunately. Was that a emo post? Hah, nah that was me being realistic. Come on, dude. I've had two relationships that were disasterous, but still there were so many great moments. Right now there are definitely more pluses than minuses. Depends how you manage things I guess. How old are you? Ah, I've never been honest with my age on here, if I tell you it'd just be a lie! You're right though, absolutely. I'm merely reflecting on my situation - in a now six year long relationship which in recent times has had more bad than good sadly. In the long term there's definitely been far more good than bad - but my state of mind is a bit dark right now. My fathers marriage broke down a few months ago and she's coming after him for everything financially and starting to spread VERY insidious lies about him. A couple of weeks ago I found a suicide note my dad's been writing - so there's pretty much why my thoughts on relationships aren't great right now. And also there's your emo post! Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118669 Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaarg Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 1:59 PM, Obel said: On 9/9/2009 at 1:49 PM, gaarg said: On 9/9/2009 at 12:09 PM, Obel said: On 9/9/2009 at 12:03 PM, gaarg said: On 9/9/2009 at 10:51 AM, Obel said: Ah, sorry man. Relationships are nothing but pain unfortunately. Was that a emo post? Hah, nah that was me being realistic. Come on, dude. I've had two relationships that were disasterous, but still there were so many great moments. Right now there are definitely more pluses than minuses. Depends how you manage things I guess. How old are you? Ah, I've never been honest with my age on here, if I tell you it'd just be a lie! You're right though, absolutely. I'm merely reflecting on my situation - in a now six year long relationship which in recent times has had more bad than good sadly. In the long term there's definitely been far more good than bad - but my state of mind is a bit dark right now. My fathers marriage broke down a few months ago and she's coming after him for everything financially and starting to spread VERY insidious lies about him. A couple of weeks ago I found a suicide note my dad's been writing - so there's pretty much why my thoughts on relationships aren't great right now. And also there's your emo post! One thing we must not forget is that in between and after these traumatic eras there's beer with friends, where you moan and cry and get pissed and all and in the end its all laughs about being a pussy and a dick and how women suck and everything. I love those debates. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide gaarg's signature Hide all signatures www.petergaber.com is where I keep my paintings. I used to have a kinky tumblr, but it exploded. Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118672 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ezkerraldean Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 2:05 PM, gaarg said: One thing we must not forget is that in between and after these traumatic eras there's beer with friends, where you moan and cry and get pissed and all and in the end its all laughs about being a pussy and a dick and how women suck and everything. I love those debates. yeah, getting trolleyed with friends genuinely did help me when i was going through a similarly emo period. not the best suggestion to abusivegeorge though lol Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118792 Share on other sites More sharing options...
thehauntingsoul Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 10:14 AM, Obel said: The last few broken relationships I've had ended in restraining orders and prison sentences for the most part. But regardless, I've learned that arson is a pretty good way to erase someone from your life. Them and all their belongings in one fell swoop. Fucking lol Obel you bastard Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide thehauntingsoul's signature Hide all signatures Last.fm SteamID: Thehauntingsoul My EP Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118809 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Drahken Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 1:57 PM, lumpenprol said: the one cool thing i've found about relationships is the part where my dick goes in stuff is one of the uncool things the part where your wallet comes out? I kid I kid! Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118814 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest abusivegeorge Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 5:43 PM, ezkerraldean said: On 9/9/2009 at 2:05 PM, gaarg said: One thing we must not forget is that in between and after these traumatic eras there's beer with friends, where you moan and cry and get pissed and all and in the end its all laughs about being a pussy and a dick and how women suck and everything. I love those debates. yeah, getting trolleyed with friends genuinely did help me when i was going through a similarly emo period. not the best suggestion to abusivegeorge though lol Lol, yeah nto the best of fucking ideas unfortunately. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118855 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Velazquez Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/6/2009 at 11:12 AM, tbio2007 said: Make yourself unavailable to her, improve your fashion sense and cross your fingers. This is good advice. Also, if you can, fuck someone she knows, preferably a bit insecure about. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide Velazquez's signature Hide all signatures Hugh Hefner's Nephew Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118867 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest abusivegeorge Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 I think that'd have to be a bloke though. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118873 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyrex Posted September 9, 2009 Report Share Posted September 9, 2009 On 9/9/2009 at 8:10 PM, abusivegeorge said: I think that'd have to be a bloke though. DO WHAT YOU MUST Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide all signatures Follow WATMM on Twitter: @WATMMOfficial Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/48722-so-im-in-love-with-my-best-friend/page/6/#findComment-1118896 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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