Autechre help

okay, heres the deal:

i've been with this guy for over 8 months...and each hint i put out there (for example some of my old writings that i found in the past, music, even fucking going on a bike ride) of things i'm interested in..he always disregards that or refuses to even acknowledge. how do i stay in a relationship with someone who obviously not interested in my passions? he listens to shit(music) and can only "stand" some of autechre..ect..ect. HE CANT EVEN WATCH SUBTITLED MOVIES FFS! any advice how to bring up after all this time for him to start branching out? even i've been willingly interested in the things he wants to show me ( how to fix a head gasket, all about his work at Mercedes Benz...i even listen to his nasty music ffs! FUCK! maybe its just me (im sure you'd all agree to that, ha)

im racking my brain around this one...any relationship advice watmm? (im sure this will turn into a disaster)

dump him

but what if the sex is great?

i need help watmm, any helpful hints on how to get this guy to branch out?

If you don't enjoy being with someone then don't be with them.

just break up with him. don't draw it out, don't play mind games, don't do anything crazy.

my friend recently broke up with his girlfriend and he went insane because of her. he actually ended up deliberately cutting off his pinky finger

  On 11/27/2009 at 6:29 PM, chax said:

just break up with him. don't draw it out, don't play mind games, don't do anything crazy.

 

my friend recently broke up with his girlfriend and he went insane because of her. he actually ended up deliberately cutting off his pinky finger

  On 11/27/2009 at 6:24 PM, weed said:

but what if the sex is great?

you're dating a guy, not his dick. get rid of him, he has no potential.

  On 11/27/2009 at 6:24 PM, weed said:

but what if the sex is great?

 

your depth is staggering

sex isn't everything, it's just a nice by-product

  On 11/27/2009 at 6:16 PM, weed said:

okay, heres the deal:

 

i've been on this forum for over 3 years...and each hint i put out there (for example some of my inane threads that i write all the time, deadmau5, even fucking going on a jagermeister binge) of things i'm interested in..everyone always disregards that or refuses to even acknowledge. how do i stay in a relationship with people who obviously not interested in my passions? they talk about poop and can't stand any of my posts ..ect..ect. THEY DONT EVEN LIKE MY BEWBS PICS FFS! any advice how to bring up after all this time for them to start branching out? even i've been willingly interested in the things they want to show me ( how to perform a 2 handed buffwipe, all about their neckfarts and Reaktor Patches ...i even listen to Essines' black metal ffs! FUCK! maybe its just me (im sure you'd all agree to that, ha)

 

 

im racking my brain around this one...any messageboard advice watmm? (im sure this will turn into a disaster)

i know relationships aren't about sex but when the sex is good the relationship seems to just be that much better

and okay he has more than enough GREAT qualities

hes very interested in science, hes a good influence...has a great head on his shoulders..

and we have lots of things have in common but how do i get him interested in the thing i'm most passionate about

also this is first boy ive dated in a long time where ...we just cant talk about music. theres no discussion there on bpms or how the mix could have used this or that. also listening to 808 state seems like a chore for him. i really do love the guy and we dont plan on breaking up anytime soon

so my question to you watmm is : (any tips, suggestions, rude comments welcome)

how do i go about trying to make him at least appreciate the things i love?

it's etc not ect

He's great in every way except thinking Autechre is da bomb? Who cares. Does anyone go out with someone with all of the exact same interests? No. The best you could shoot for is 68% compatibility. Chances are if you have the exact same music taste they're either crazy or ugly. It has to balance out somehow.

oh yeah man that is definitely 130bpm

Stab him.

hey ryan lennox if you are reading this,

discussing music, any music is like a huge part of my life and music is not even a part of his life

doesn't really give one rats ass about it

and i know i know ezkerralden, only jenson falls into ect..ect...ect

Threaten to bite his balls off unless he changes to be how you want him to be. If he doesn't, actually bite his balls off.

threaten to abort his child

violence is the answer to everything

I've never been with a girl that enjoyed electronic music like I do.

deal with it

  On 11/27/2009 at 7:04 PM, ezkerraldean said:

it's etc not ect

indeed, sir!

stay with the dude... then never post on watmm ever again!

  On 11/27/2009 at 8:10 PM, asymmetrical head said:

stay with the dude... then never post on watmm ever again!

WORD UP!

invite a new zealander round to take naked photos of you whilst you sit at the computer

stay with him untill you totally fall in love with someone else.