Hanging with my hyper-hetero friends

  On 1/30/2014 at 12:37 PM, ussr said:

 

  On 1/5/2012 at 10:29 PM, disparaissant said:

 

  On 1/5/2012 at 2:10 PM, 'rixxx' said:

the quiet ones always turn out to be Nice Guys and Nice Guys are the fucking worst.

 

 

I know this is a really old thread, but fuck you for making such a sweeping generalization.

 

"it is, however, pretty absurdly dickish to call people cunts."

lol.

  On 1/30/2014 at 1:12 PM, delet... said:

 

  On 1/30/2014 at 12:25 PM, 2WV said:

well ok there is one couple we do see occasionally, who are sometimes in my photos. I used to have another friend but not seen him in bloody ages. that's about it though...like 2 mates and one of their girlfriends. I have got a gf though and mainly just hang around with her... when I was in my early twenties I had loads of mates, but since I've grown older I only ever had like 2 that I saw remotely regularly and even that seems to be petering out now...maybe it's just what happens when you reach your mid thirties...

 

As i said to someone on here the other week. By your forties it's whittled down to two regular friends. I also told them that they were just ahead of the curve. Same could apply in your case, or maybe cause that's an old stat things have gotten worse in the being with friends over the long haul stakes in this era of longer working hours and constant technological distraction.

 

That being said we dedicate quite a lot of our lives to keeping in contact with each other through this portal. Some over the years i feel reasonably close to as friends as weird to them as that may seem (;-p) And i'm rather fond of you all, overall, all things considered. derpdee derp derp. [-;

 

the feeling is mutual delet, especially since you started typing intelligibly

/flys to china, loses all lumpy's respect.

a friend who is only a friend when with other friends suggested that me and him go and play badminton later in the week and not share a court with other friends like we normally would. i sort of recoiled and became awkward as fuck and feared potential awkwardness (which is weird cause i actually prefer one-on-one social situations usually). the idea of badminton without girls there also struck me as a bit gay.

it's shit like that that means i'll be completely alone soon nuff.

  On 1/30/2014 at 12:12 AM, disparaissant said:

wow, blast from the past!

and no, it's not cunty to say that "Nice Guys" who expect women to put out because they treat them like human beings and then flip out and call them "cunts" because they don't sleep with them are pretty awful people. women are not machines that you put nice coins into until sex comes out.

it is, however, pretty absurdly dickish to call people cunts.

"cunty" should be distinguished from "cunt" =) I didn't call anyone a cunt. I don't use that word liberally lol. but no one gets offended when they're called a dick. Its all about equal rights here...there's a use for both…cunt and dick. am i not right?? that does come across as a sweeping generalization…but now that you clarified it I understand what you mean by the nice guy/Nice Guy thing. but from how I would define it, thats whats called a Creepy Sociopathic MOTHERFUCKER. How that got turned into Nice Guy is a bit odd…maybe theres a lot of creepers in your part of the world. Ive heard the term "nice guys finish last" but creating the stigma that nice guys are probably creepy sociopathic douche bags, is a bit…errr...wrong to me.

"cunt" is a far worse slur than "dick" because of how women are less valued by society and comparing a guy to a woman is basically the supreme insult. but i won't get into that. instead i'll just point out that the reason i use the term "Nice Guy" is because the dudes that I am talking about generally call THEMSELVES that. "why does she date that ASSHOLE? i'm such a nice guy!" generally followed with "UGH i listened to her complain about her ASSHOLE BOYFRIEND cheating on her and she won't even PUT OUT? WHAT A BITCH!"

lots of emotions here guys !

UGH how DARE you use the term GUYS

Blokes

Nice Blokes?

Gentlemen?

Chaps?

Dudes?

  On 1/31/2014 at 8:08 AM, disparaissant said:

UGH how DARE you use the term GUYS

so cute hehe :3 I love you disaparaissant. Will you have sex with me?

I WILL PEEL OFF YOUR SKIN AND WEAR IT AND THEN EAT YOUR EYEBALLS

  On 1/31/2014 at 8:20 AM, disparaissant said:

I WILL PEEL OFF YOUR SKIN AND WEAR IT AND THEN EAT YOUR EYEBALLS

OOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMFFFFFFFFFGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111

I think I'm in love.

Lol

Get a room, you two. ;)

Also, i miss rixxx. My secret watmm love...

I luv emotion. Im sensitive...CASE SENSITIVE.

emotions from cool girls melt my heart.

nope don't have any normal, hyper-hetero friends ^ and yea I agree Ae oozes masculinity at times…but I don't really think that attaching a gender to an autechre is the most fitting thing either. but then again…could you imagine the possibilities? fuk, what was this thread about?

  On 1/31/2014 at 8:03 AM, disparaissant said:

"cunt" is a far worse slur than "dick" because of how women are less valued by society and comparing a guy to a woman is basically the supreme insult. but i won't get into that. instead i'll just point out that the reason i use the term "Nice Guy" is because the dudes that I am talking about generally call THEMSELVES that. "why does she date that ASSHOLE? i'm such a nice guy!" generally followed with "UGH i listened to her complain about her ASSHOLE BOYFRIEND cheating on her and she won't even PUT OUT? WHAT A BITCH!"

id be surprised if most quiet guys are like that. maybe quiet guys under the age of 25.

Being a nice guy was the most shameful thing I've done in my life when I was younger 20s. Fuck, I wanna puke.

  On 1/31/2014 at 8:03 AM, disparaissant said:

"cunt" is a far worse slur than "dick" because of how women are less valued by society and comparing a guy to a woman is basically the supreme insult. but i won't get into that. instead i'll just point out that the reason i use the term "Nice Guy" is because the dudes that I am talking about generally call THEMSELVES that. "why does she date that ASSHOLE? i'm such a nice guy!" generally followed with "UGH i listened to her complain about her ASSHOLE BOYFRIEND cheating on her and she won't even PUT OUT? WHAT A BITCH!"

(no offense)

dissi wouldn't last long in australia, we use cunt all the time. Also lol at trying to gain empowerment by claiming turf on that word so that you can shut it down. Rather dick move.

;-p

  On 1/6/2012 at 7:20 PM, chassis said:

Sounds like people on watmm are either two faced or they're way over thinking things. Possible arseholes too.

I'd probably say this again, but I'd correct my grammar error, which is annoying me immensely.

But the thread got too American for me.

arseholes...

  On 2/1/2014 at 6:46 AM, chassis said:

 

  On 1/6/2012 at 7:20 PM, chassis said:

Sounds like people on watmm are either two faced or they're way over thinking things. Possible arseholes too.

I'd probably say this again, but I'd correct my grammar error, which is annoying me immensely.

 

But the thread got too American for me.

 

Yeah, I was wondering a bit about this. The American dating scene with it's Nice Guys^TM, feminazis, PUAs, dating rituals, etc looks pretty complicated from where I'm standing. Why make it so hard?

  On 2/1/2014 at 11:03 AM, mokz said:

 

 

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JUST HAVE SEX ALREADY AND GET OVER WITH IT.

 

 

I know... I'm so fucking lame. In all the situations where it almost happened, I basically just froze and didn't do anything, afraid of being inappropriate. Was also nervous. Plus, the girls were always expecting me to do something first, and they are just waiting without doing anything either... And then it's like "ok..." and became awkward.