LimpyLoo Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 Eww, sex is gross. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926248 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adieu Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 On 1/4/2013 at 5:25 AM, jules said: trust your gut. but I'd say this, if you do move in, make sure you are renting. buying something together could be very complicated if things don't work out. and if things do work out, and you get married...dont crush on a woman you work with 12 years from now... Not sure if best to follow Jules advice Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide Adieu's signature Hide all signatures There will be new love from the ashes of us. Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926253 Share on other sites More sharing options...
LimpyLoo Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 My advice: buy a handgun. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926254 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest appleneon8 Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 Many thanks for the replies. Jefferoo: she hasn't properly met my friends or family yet (I live out of my home country), but I know that they will see the same thing I see. She's very likeable as she is one of those people with a positive energy/happy to be alive kind of personality. Very sincere too. Lumpen: actually we are both already outside our home countries and before meeting each other had planned on moving on to another country anyway. So it's more of a question of picking the same place on the map, so we can continue to be together... Also, currently we are in this really shitty, claustrophobic city yet with barely anything to do, so I'm thinking that if we can still be happy with each other when the context is not favourable at all, then if we were somewhere else it can only be even better. Even though we still have time to figure things out, we are still considering renting two different places though, just to make sure we can choose to not be in each other's face shall we want to. One last thing, I should mention that she is very pragmatic and logical, so it is very easy to solve issues with her. We make a very good team if you know what I mean. We are also in complete agreement over the "big topics" (mariage, kids, priorities in life, money...). Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926255 Share on other sites More sharing options...
geosmina Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 hoping the best for you Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide geosmina's signature Hide all signatures https://animanoir.xyz/ Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926256 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest A/D Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 Sounds great man. I think your worries are healthy but it seems like you are pretty sure about this. Do stuff that makes you happy! If it doesn't work out do more stuff! Keep it real. Have fun. Oh, and make sure to post updates, so 90% of us WATMMs can get a window into what a good relationship is like. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926405 Share on other sites More sharing options...
chim Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 Okay, I get it that you're going through the newly in love phase and your hormones are turning your brain into mush, but 3 months is nothing. It's impossible for you to have any idea what might be around the corner. Those three months can easily turn into a 2 year hell hole. Everything is super for a while, but then real life, and all those dark bits that you have managed to hide from eachother, start infecting your relationship. You start noticing that she's trying to manipulate you, even though she said she doesn't believe in doing that, and you find yourself doing the same to her. You realize she knows you too well and you find yourself almost too vulnerable to be comfortable. You realize that all that love you feel can turn into the coldest ice dagger if something goes wrong. Then either one of two things happens; you start fighting together to keep it up or the relationship turns into complete shit. I'm just trying to scare you. Don't worry too much, the inevitable will happen with time. Either you are compatible, or you aren't after a certain point, and then you should be glad the less time & energy you have wasted. Relationships kind of steer themselves but people like to imagine they are in control. The one long-term thing you should be concerned about is that if you get in over your head and get your heart broken, you might find it difficult to trust someone who actually deserves it. But that usually takes a few shit relationships to happen. Have fun and try to appreciate the good bits. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926420 Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscillik Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 bonus XP for using the cliche of "coldest ice dagger" Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide oscillik's signature Hide all signatures Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926463 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alcofribas Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 On 1/4/2013 at 5:25 AM, jules said: trust your gut. but I'd say this, if you do move in, make sure you are renting. buying something together could be very complicated if things don't work out.and if things do work out, and you get married...dont crush on a woman you work with 12 years from now... lol Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926735 Share on other sites More sharing options...
LimpyLoo Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 On 1/5/2013 at 7:59 AM, Alcofribas said: On 1/4/2013 at 5:25 AM, jules said: trust your gut. but I'd say this, if you do move in, make sure you are renting. buying something together could be very complicated if things don't work out.and if things do work out, and you get married...dont crush on a woman you work with 12 years from now... lol parallol Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926740 Share on other sites More sharing options...
GORDO Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 go for it, only one way to know if it's gonna work out. you only live once and shit. what's the worst that can happen and stuff, just don't get her pregnant yet. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide GORDO's signature Hide all signatures ZOMG! Lazerz pew pew pew!!!!11!!1!!!!1!oneone!shift+one!~!!! Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926762 Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneToThirtySix Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 I would wait three more months and see how you deal with the inevitable lull in bed after that. If you find yourself fapping while she's fapping, then you are wasting the other's time and energy. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926768 Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumpenprol Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 if she is either unwilling, or even worse incapable of docking with you, then something's wrong Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide lumpenprol's signature Hide all signatures After this I listened to geogaddi and I didn't like it, I was quite vomitting at some tracks, I realized they were too crazy for my ears, they took too much acid to play music I stupidly thought (cliché of psyché music) But I knew this album was a kind of big forest where I just wasn't able to go inside. - lost cloud I was in US tjis summer, and eat in KFC. FUCK That's the worst thing i've ever eaten. The flesh simply doesn't cleave to the bones. Battery ferming. And then, foie gras is banned from NY state, because it's considered as ill-treat. IT'S NOT. KFC is tourist ill-treat. YOU POISONERS! Two hours after being to KFC, i stopped in a amsih little town barf all that KFC shit out. Nice work! So i hope this woman is not like kfc chicken, otherwise she'll be pulled to pieces. -organized confused project Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926771 Share on other sites More sharing options...
zkreso Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 Be careful. If there's one thing daytime television has taught us, it is that when a woman that seems to good to be true gets together with a timid guy and asks him to travel abroad with her, the only possibility is that she will disappear from their hotel room upon where he will be forced to act as a drug courier if he ever wants to see her again. He inevitably ends up in prison where he realizes it was all just a hoax and that she was just used by bait by a hidden crime syndicate. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926809 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cult fiction Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 zkreso said: Be careful. If there's one thing daytime television has taught us, it is that when a woman that seems to good to be true gets together with a timid guy and asks him to travel abroad with her, the only possibility is that she will disappear from their hotel room upon where he will be forced to act as a drug courier if he ever wants to see her again. He inevitably ends up in prison where he realizes it was all just a hoax and that she was just used by bait by a hidden crime syndicate. This has happened to me more times than I care to recount. Make sure you have a second passport, and keep it in a hidden compartment in the sole of your shoe. Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1926939 Share on other sites More sharing options...
awepittance Posted January 6, 2013 Report Share Posted January 6, 2013 On 1/5/2013 at 9:06 PM, Face Culler said: This has happened to me more times than I care to recount. Make sure you have a second passport, and keep it in a hidden compartment in the sole of your shoe. i just reported you to the homeland security hotline sand n-word Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide awepittance's signature Hide all signatures Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1927114 Share on other sites More sharing options...
keltoi Posted January 7, 2013 Report Share Posted January 7, 2013 (edited) trust your penis. and post pics. of her, not your penis. Edited January 7, 2013 by keltoi Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide keltoi's signature Hide all signatures Reveal hidden contents Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1927634 Share on other sites More sharing options...
skotosa Posted January 7, 2013 Report Share Posted January 7, 2013 I would wait at least a year before doing anything drastic like moving in and spiting bills. Date her for a year and see how you both feel about each other after that. Within a years time one or both of you should know if you are ready for the "next" step. My sister thought she was in love, she thought she found her dream guy till he went bat shit crazy with her and devastated her emotionally. She still has a hard time getting over him and they were together for 4 months. Tread lightly my friend. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide skotosa's signature Hide all signatures Artist Name: SkiaSoundcloud http://www.last.fm/user/skotosa Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1927642 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest the anonymous forumite Posted January 7, 2013 Report Share Posted January 7, 2013 (edited) Ditch the bitch. edit: nah, just let yourself go, let's not analyze our lives too much, let yourself live this great experience. Even if it ends badly, it's gonna be worthwhile. Edited January 7, 2013 by the anonymous forumite Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1927696 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest zaphod Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 On 1/5/2013 at 9:06 PM, Face Culler said: zkreso said: Be careful. If there's one thing daytime television has taught us, it is that when a woman that seems to good to be true gets together with a timid guy and asks him to travel abroad with her, the only possibility is that she will disappear from their hotel room upon where he will be forced to act as a drug courier if he ever wants to see her again. He inevitably ends up in prison where he realizes it was all just a hoax and that she was just used by bait by a hidden crime syndicate. This has happened to me more times than I care to recount. Make sure you have a second passport, and keep it in a hidden compartment in the sole of your shoe. your avatar and this post are a winning combination. i picture the dog saying this, world weary, wearing tiny shoes that open to reveal a miniature passport containing this photo: Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1931546 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vamos scorcho Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 why do the stupidest people have girlfriends fuck everything i blame women soft ass bitches need to step up for themselves Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1931554 Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke viia Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 Hey, congratulations, you made a post and didn't even check to see if it made sense. Efficient. Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide luke viia's signature Hide all signatures GHOST: have you killed Claudius yet HAMLET: no GHOST: why HAMLET: fuck you is why im going to the cemetery to touch skulls [planet of dinosaurs - the album [bc] [archive]] Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1931555 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vamos scorcho Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 feminist literature supports my claims Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1931563 Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke viia Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 (edited) the only claim you made is that soft ass bitches need to step up for themselves implying that someone is "stepping up for them" at the moment stop while you're ahead ps - i love you vamos. Edited January 15, 2013 by luke viia Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Hide luke viia's signature Hide all signatures GHOST: have you killed Claudius yet HAMLET: no GHOST: why HAMLET: fuck you is why im going to the cemetery to touch skulls [planet of dinosaurs - the album [bc] [archive]] Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1931565 Share on other sites More sharing options...
vamos scorcho Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 love you too this is what interests me: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory Thanks Haha Confused Sad Facepalm Burger Farnsworth Big Brain Like × Quote Link to comment https://forum.watmm.com/topic/77069-relationship-advice/page/2/#findComment-1931566 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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