I just came out

  On 11/9/2011 at 4:45 AM, kaini said:

you're a brave dude, and i salute you.

 

it took a summer in san fran and copious amounts of GHB to convince one of my closest friends that he was gay. he was a total male slut before that. compensating much?

 

and he couldn't be happier now. all sorts of awesome sex awaits you. go grab that shit like it was the new BoC album!

I'd rather have the album than tear my life to shreds...

And again with the "b"-word...it is mostly unreal, like at any moment I'll wake up and this will have been the consequence of Thai cashew chicken with too many peppers. I talked with the local community theatre director, who is gay, but has a son, and I remember very little of that conversation, except his advice and adamance that I not off myself, and while I know I had that conversation, some part of me denies it yet.

Edit: but there isn't any going back now.

  On 11/9/2011 at 5:31 AM, OneToThirtySix said:

  On 11/9/2011 at 4:45 AM, kaini said:

you're a brave dude, and i salute you.

 

it took a summer in san fran and copious amounts of GHB to convince one of my closest friends that he was gay. he was a total male slut before that. compensating much?

 

and he couldn't be happier now. all sorts of awesome sex awaits you. go grab that shit like it was the new BoC album!

I'd rather have the album than tear my life to shreds...

 

And again with the "b"-word...it is mostly unreal, like at any moment I'll wake up and this will have been the consequence of Thai cashew chicken with too many peppers. I talked with the local community theatre director, who is gay, but has a son, and I remember very little of that conversation, except his advice and adamance that I not off myself, and while I know I had that conversation, some part of me denies it yet.

 

Edit: but there isn't any going back now.

you have confronted the scariest thing in your life head on and dealt with it. not only have you dealt with it but you've posted it to a forum with a... let's say... less than stellar history when it comes to this kind of stuff. of course it feels unreal.

damn straight!

(where the hell did that phrase come from?)

  On 11/9/2011 at 4:56 AM, Rambo said:

  On 11/9/2011 at 4:45 AM, kaini said:

it took a summer in san fran and copious amounts of GHB to convince one of my closest friends that he was gay.

 

 

So does this work with anyone?

Cum to vancouver - no GHB, but there's always essines.

Always

essines

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=geyAFbSDPVk

edit: ian c already said it all in the first page, glad you got some comfort out of this thread

Did you guys see this? It sounds like bullshit... but you never know.

Can a Stroke Turn You Gay? Rugby Player Says It Did

^ depends who's doing the stroking.

  On 11/9/2011 at 11:15 AM, keltoi said:

^ depends who's doing the stroking.

ZING!

  On 11/9/2011 at 10:59 AM, jefferoo said:

Did you guys see this? It sounds like bullshit... but you never know.

 

Can a Stroke Turn You Gay? Rugby Player Says It Did

 

seems like a closeted dude making the most of a medical emergency.

  On 11/9/2011 at 2:13 PM, disparaissant said:

  On 11/9/2011 at 10:59 AM, jefferoo said:

Did you guys see this? It sounds like bullshit... but you never know.

 

Can a Stroke Turn You Gay? Rugby Player Says It Did

 

seems like a closeted dude making the most of a medical emergency.

he got lemons and made pink lemonade.

pretty much

love this quote from the comments

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Fact is he was always as camp as a row of tents and the biggest attention seeker you could meet.

Only just noticed this thread, well done though i know how hard it is,

I was engaged to a girl i was seeing from the age of about 17 till i was 21 we had just got a place together,

looking back i knew even from school i liked boys as i had crushes on some of my mates, i thought it was just a phase people went through.

When it all came out it was horrible, i felt so bad for her but she was amazing and supportive, still see her now, she has 3 kids.

You have so much living ahead of you and you are lucky that she seems like she will be there for you even though she must be hurting

If you need to talk or ask about anything feel free.

Feeling a bit up in the air myself atm as I was dumped last week from a long term relationship (almost 12 years) =(

to me it's not unbelievable at all that a stroke could change someones sexuality. I mean it's all up there somewhere in the brain unless we are suggesting that there is such a thing as a gay soul. Sure it's a fantastic genre of music but i dont think it exists outside of that.

my gf believes in stuff and thinks that we are gay/straight on a soul level.

i dunno i guess it makes sense if there IS a soul, considering it is a pretty intrinsic part of who someone is?

pretty sure that souls are disembodied by definition, i've always thought of the concept as pretty asexual.

theyre not exactly a necessary component in explaining sexual preferences either, so lets just nip this one in the bud

also congrats 1-36, i hope you make the best of your new found truth to yourself and your peers :sup:

yeah no i agree i just know a lot of gay people who for one reason or another believe in souls and think theirs are gay

idgi either

Used to believe my friend had a fat soul. He reminds me of my ridiculously food obsessed dog.

fatdogonsand.jpg

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yes, we have a soul, but it's made of lots of tiny robots.

I guess some people have a gay configuration of robots.

  On 11/9/2011 at 4:18 PM, nene multiple assgasms said:

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yes, we have a soul, but it's made of lots of tiny robots.

 

I guess some people have a gay configuration of robots.

i would love that to become the politically correct way to ask if someone was homosexual

So now my marriage is into this bizarre roller coaster of "we're okay, we're not okay, dinner is nice, crying and writing nasty notes to a lesser extent".

I HAVE to get my trucking job back, it's the only way I can see us both getting out of this sane...

If I could offer a serious suggestion: it's kinky open marriage time. That always works well.

Maybe the rotten notes weren't for you... Maybe it's just a breakdown.