Breakup ----> ???

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:07 AM, Hoodie said:

listen, don't try to convince yourself that it's ok or that it's bad. the fact that you posted this thread shows that you have reluctance due to some outside reason.

well i was pretty clueless coming in. i've never been talked to this way by anyone in real like EVER. like, not even close.

Sneaksta, you're a funny dude you know that?

i just realised how speechless some people must be by the fact that i was actually a guy

my country of origin says virgin islands. lol, what a weird coincidence

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:07 AM, Hoodie said:

listen, don't try to convince yourself that it's ok or that it's bad. the fact that you posted this thread shows that you have reluctance due to some outside reason. go with your first instinct, because if you don't, you'll probably regret it. i don't see what's so difficult. if you do, you're not a whore, if you don't, you're not stuck as a virgin. bam. end of story.

 

im going to go and wildy assume here that hoodie has never had too much trouble finding companionship of the opposite(same of thats what your into) sex.

i was in the same situation as you clayx until i was about 17, i really couldnt understand how to get girls to like me cos i am a bit of an ugly fucker, i missed out on about two situations like this basically out of teenage lack of self-confidence fear. over the last 3-4 years ive began to understand that girls will like you simply for a sense of knowing who you are, confidence, and a sense of humour, even if you are a bit ropey in the facial features area. this experience wont immediately put you on the track to a personality where you can attract girls you like, but it will get you on the way. im being quite serious when i say you will seriously benefit. no it wont be a meaningful loss of your virginity, it actually sounds to me like she is a bit of a skank trying to get back at her ex but fuck it. your getting your end greased, make sure you dont fall in love with her just cos its your first, and see what happens. who knows, maybe she does like you? no-one can judge a situation on a few lines of text.

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:14 AM, Calx Sherbet said:

i just realised how speechless some people must be by the fact that i was actually a guy

 

my country of origin says virgin islands. lol, what a weird coincidence

watmm's a meat fest, i don't think anyone is surprised.

brothaman I really like hoodie Calx but a young woman's perspective is the last thing you need right now. Hoodie, I'm not retarded and not nasty or whatever and YES you do totally have good points and all that but face it, he should probably be de-flowered before any kind of higher learning especially.

Are you going to college btw?

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:14 AM, Calx Sherbet said:

i just realised how speechless some people must be by the fact that i was actually a guy

 

my country of origin says virgin islands. lol, what a weird coincidence

ive known you were a guy for as long as i can remember.

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:15 AM, messiaen said:

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:07 AM, Hoodie said:

listen, don't try to convince yourself that it's ok or that it's bad. the fact that you posted this thread shows that you have reluctance due to some outside reason. go with your first instinct, because if you don't, you'll probably regret it. i don't see what's so difficult. if you do, you're not a whore, if you don't, you're not stuck as a virgin. bam. end of story.

 

 

im going to go and wildy assume here that hoodie has never had too much trouble finding companionship of the opposite(same of thats what your into) sex.

 

i was in the same situation as you clayx until i was about 17, i really couldnt understand how to get girls to like me cos i am a bit of an ugly fucker, i missed out on about two situations like this basically out of teenage lack of self-confidence fear. over the last 3-4 years ive began to understand that girls will like you simply for a sense of knowing who you are, confidence, and a sense of humour, even if you are a bit ropey in the facial features area. this experience wont immediately put you on the track to a personality where you can attract girls you like, but it will get you on the way. im being quite serious when i say you will seriously benefit. no it wont be a meaningful loss of your virginity, it actually sounds to me like she is a bit of a skank trying to get back at her ex but fuck it. your getting your end greased, make sure you dont fall in love with her just cos its your first, and see what happens. who knows, maybe she does like you? no-one can judge a situation on a few lines of text.

oh i do carry wonderful traits, but i never really bothered to think about why i never attracted anyone. i already figured it was obviously because i didn't do anything about it. pretty simple enough. but like you said, gotta see where it goes from here.

and she does, at least i could assume so because of the very extensive conversations we've had. i hope it's nothing shallow

i appreciate the words of wisdom

my vote would be dont. if it's being thrown at you and you're not a player to begin with then you probably dont want it. otherwise you have to earn that shit with dates and romance and sensitivity and mixtapes.

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:16 AM, sneaksta303 said:

Are you going to college btw?

well if you're asking me, i'm not until next year.

i dont believe you never thought about it. im pretty sure from roughly the age of 12-13 all most male teenagers really think about is sex.

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:22 AM, Fred McGriff said:

my vote would be dont. if it's being thrown at you and you're not a player to begin with then you probably dont want it. otherwise you have to earn that shit with dates and romance and sensitivity and mixtapes.

i'm sensitive!

not for the sake of the ladies though, just all around

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:23 AM, messiaen said:

i dont believe you never thought about it. im pretty sure from roughly the age of 12-13 all most male teenagers really think about is sex.

well of course i did. but i never tried getting into a relationship with anyone, that's what i was meanin by that. like i said it's due to being a proper deadbeat

well if you don't want it don't get it but if you're, like delaying something you do want due to being a bundle of nerves about it, DO IT.

calx deadbeat aint in your vocab, you're just a little scared.

if it weren't your first, i'd say go for it, keeping in mind what may happen when she tells her ex (which she undoubtedly will when she probably gets back with him). since you're a virgin, don't put it on some slag, especially where there's people you know involved. given how quick the desire for rebound was it's definitely a recipe for disaster.

so yah, stay away imo :)

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:27 AM, sneaksta303 said:

well if you don't want it don't get it but if you're, like delaying something you do want due to being a bundle of nerves about it, DO IT.

 

calx deadbeat aint in your vocab, you're just a little scared.

and partially useless. i didn't just mean about this bundle of nerves, but i really have done nothing for as long as i can remember

but thanks!

I imagine you'll look like your avatar as you helplessly flood her with your precious bodily fluids

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:28 AM, pulsewarrior said:

if it weren't your first, i'd say go for it, keeping in mind what may happen when she tells her ex (which she undoubtedly will when she probably gets back with him). since you're a virgin, don't put it on some slag, especially where there's people you know involved. given how quick the desire for rebound was it's definitely a recipe for disaster.

 

so yah, stay away imo :)

i hear ya. i hope she doesn't go back, like really... this guy is a pain. but ain't my decision

  On 3/16/2010 at 4:32 AM, lumpenprol said:

I imagine you'll look like your avatar as you helplessly flood her with your precious bodily fluids

Volcanicity, man

im going to bed now or very soon, but i can almost guarantee you the guys telling you to now have your first lay off someone who doesnt really care didnt have much trouble with it themselves when they were younger. thats all im gonna say more cos ive been chatting massive amounts of balls in this thread, ive been chatting bollocks to everyone ive met all night but its a monday and its basically the only night in this city that isnt that bangin and i had to come home early cos everyone else went.

for me it was 16 but shit it seemed hard then as well but even though i wasnt all that attractive being in rock/metal/experimental bands from 8-12th grade helped. i never had randomish sex in high school though only girlfriends.

you're company was delightful messiaen, get some sleep if you need it

i dont need it but theres nothing left for me to do but watmm. my halls internet isnt working too good so i cant watch tv and i have a friend who randomly turned up from liverpool flat out on my floor so i cant make too much noise. i mayaswell just kip.

  On 3/16/2010 at 3:18 AM, Calx Sherbet said:

alright so long story short, this girl i never met before dumped this dude that one of my friends knows. she did this only 3 hours after i met her.

 

they went separate ways and she started hanging out with me and my friends all night. and it was 3 hours later when i'm laying in bed and i get a text message from her (i had given her my number because she planned on hanging out with us in the future). the message just says something along the lines of "i broke up with him". and i'm thinking "well that's a shame, but i guess he was a bit of a douche". but i didn't think much of it.

 

so then tomorrow comes and i get another text, and she tells me out of the blue she thinks i'm hot. flattered (and bewildered), i thanked her. later that day she was asking me if i want to hang out later this week. i said yes. then she asks me if i want to stay the night at her house. now really she's a couple years younger than me, but this is all coming at me a little fast. just the day before i didn't even know her. is this some kind of act of revenge toward the other dude she was with, or what exactly is going on? i share a class with him so hopefully he doesn't kick my ass. he jumps to conclusions very quickly

I haven't read past the first post, but I'm just gonna say if you don't jump on that quick...well, better luck next time.

she has herpes and she wants to share them with you.

put ur dick in the vagina

  On 3/16/2010 at 5:07 AM, MAXIMUS MISCHIEF said:

put ur dick in the vagina

problem solved