Breakup ----> ???

My 2¢:

Don't listen to Troon... listen to Sneaks.

Wear protection and have a good time. Just try not to get too attached at first. She might just be trying to blow off some steam but it could be a win/win.

You're young. Enjoy yourself!

  On 3/16/2010 at 5:33 AM, jefferoo said:

My 2¢:

 

Don't listen to Troon... listen to Sneaks.

 

Wear protection and have a good time. Just try not to get too attached at first. She might just be trying to blow off some steam but it could be a win/win.

 

You're young. Enjoy yourself!

i prefer not being arrested

no wonder australia almost got banned from australia....

  On 3/16/2010 at 3:26 AM, messiaen said:

edit:what kind of a faggot stays away from a random shag as a teenager. jesus. just make sure youve got a few rubbers.

you might as well spend the night and see where it takes you. if you're not feeling it, no one will force you to do anything and if you don't have sex, there are plenty of other prizes to be won, like hotdogging for example.

either way, my recommendation is to just get the first time over with. no sense in building it up and putting pressure on yourself.

since you don't really care about her (yet), it'd be a good learning experience and easy to move on from if it doesn't go as planned. you've got nothing to lose!

  On 3/16/2010 at 6:07 AM, uptowndevil said:

you might as well spend the night and see where it takes you. if you're not feeling it, no one will force you to do anything and if you don't have sex, there are plenty of other prizes to be won, like hotdogging for example.

 

either way, my recommendation is to just get the first time over with. no sense in building it up and putting pressure on yourself.

since you don't really care about her (yet), it'd be a good learning experience and easy to move on from if it doesn't go as planned. you've got nothing to lose!

Totally!

I was 22 when I lost it and the experience was one of the most traumatic events of my life.

I wanted it to be with someone I loved and waited for the right person and all that.

Moments after climax, her "boyfriend" (a friend of mine who I thought was long gone) came home and I had to throw my clothes on and sit out in the hallway while they talked it out. After that I looked back on numerous prior opportunities and thought things like "When I was rubbing my dick all over that girls hot 19 year old coochie, why didn't I just put it in?".

Just have fun.

  On 3/16/2010 at 6:07 AM, uptowndevil said:

you might as well spend the night and see where it takes you. if you're not feeling it, no one will force you to do anything and if you don't have sex, there are plenty of other prizes to be won, like hotdogging for example.

exactly, i don't completely know her intention anyway. that's why i started the thread

i'm not gonna move in on her if that's what you're sayin...

  On 3/16/2010 at 6:13 AM, jefferoo said:

After that I looked back on numerous prior opportunities and thought things like "When I was rubbing my dick all over that girls hot 19 year old coochie, why didn't I just put it in?".

fucking lol. i had such a similar experience, except i waited until i was 18 and the girl i lost it to got really drunk a few nights later and had sex with one of my good friends.

chalk that one up to being a sucker.. can't say i regret it, though; just should have taken ANY of the opportunities i had before that.

that was a monumental post, i wish i could shake your hand sir. hell just sticky the post and that's it

  On 3/16/2010 at 6:51 AM, xxx said:

NEVER BEFORE IN MY LIFE HAVE I SEEN A BIGGER VOID BETWEEN SEX AND EMOTION.

i agree with this statement

i....

wow

  On 3/16/2010 at 3:22 AM, messiaen said:

your gonna get laid and probably jibbed off shortly afterwards. id get my dick wet and ignore any expectations.

Man, I remember when I was in high school and there was this girl in my orchestra class that had a crush on me. She told me that sometimes she has sleepovers, and her mom buys her condoms.

I was all because I had a girlfriend at the time

anal sex

you wouldn't believe what early experiences with a girl with insanely catholic parents can involve

  On 3/16/2010 at 8:50 AM, kaini said:

you wouldn't believe what early experiences with a girl with insanely catholic parents can involve

i can, i had a girlfriend in middle school whose mother was a drill instructor in the military. not to sure which i'd prefer, though.. probably the drill instructor.

  On 3/16/2010 at 7:01 AM, xxx said:

Not looking to derail the thread and I'm sure it's been covered ad nauseam but recollections of the first time a woman put your dick in her mouth? I got really lucky; it was the first girlfriend I ever had and thank fuck for Cosmopolitan magazine and all it's cloaked filth because she had..."done her homework," so to speak. Slow, fast, right hand jack, no hand, tongue flick, the whole affair probably took 48 seconds. It was one of the few moments when I thought I was going to die--which was weird. I think it was oxygen deprivation from trying not to just scream out a 180 dB blast like those diplodocus dinosaurs did through those resonating chambers in their skulls. I guess I just came full circle to why that autoerotic asphyxiation is the bee's knees apparently. I also felt similar in the mosh pit (90's lol) during "March of the Pigs" during the NIN Downward Spiral tour in 1995 but make no mistake...that was not anywhere near comparable to a blowjob.

....jesus.

Well Calx Sherbet,

I see your situation and raise you two of mine!

1st:

I'm with a girl that I am extremely fond of... Like extremely, (I'm reluctant to say love on WATMM for fear of catching "the gay"). The thing is she lives in Calgary, nearly 1000Km away. There is this other girl who I go to school with and lives here in Vancouver with me, who is very attractive and has hung out with me literally everyday since she broke up with her asshole boyfriend 3 months ago.

Halie (the Vancouver girl) and I have already confessed that there is defiantly something between us, and now all she will talk about is how much she would "Love to have sex" with me... I should be noted that they both hate Autechre and BoC, like c'mon!?

2nd:

There was this crazy smart girl with huge breasts back in highschool who kept on asking me for unconditional sex... First it was that she was with some crazy catholic boy and she really just wanted to get it on, I said no...

She then broke up with him and was like "wanna date now" and I was all like "no".

Then she got a new boyfriend asked me for unconditional sex AGAIN, which I refused AGAIN (because I'm retarded)

THEN SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM SO SHE COULD DATE ME. I said no AGAIN... This girl is fucking insane.

Then she invited me outside one day at like 3am (yes she threw a rock at my window like a crazy person) then proceeded to sneak me into her friends house and into a lone room with a bed, I kept on sending very strong signals that I didn't want to have sex with her. She then went to the washroom only to return to the bedroom fully nude. It should be noted here that this girl DID in fact like BoC... but not Autechre.

Siiigghhh, my life .

  On 3/16/2010 at 3:28 AM, Fred McGriff said:

if your dick is as big as mine then bring a shoehorn

haha!

i must say i agree with xxx when he says that the void between sex and emotion has never been bigger. at first i found it disturbing, but there really is no higher math in all of this. listen to your natural impulses. have as much sex as you can (which not necessarily means it becomes your major occupation), frankly when you're in the 17-30 years old, you are most capable of reproducing. get laid, have fun, BUT not at the expense of your feelings. If it makes you feel depressed, don't do it. Also avoid hurting any other person involved. It basically helps if you and your chosen girl agree that this is 'sex-only' relationship. And if anything deeper comes out of it, it might begin as a friendship, or a relationship. Just be always honest with yourself and everybody else involved.

about your situation: if her ex is your good friend, don't do it. It is never a good idea to sacrifice a good friendship for a pleasing dip in the moist. If he is a moron, and you like the girl, do it. Do her properly so you both have something out of it.

another very top quality response, i appreciate the effort.

oh...your avatar IS animated. i thought i just didn't sleep enough....

if you're doing it just to not be a virgin i advise you not to... also don't worry about being a virgin sex is really unimportant in the grand scale

do it and enjoy it. when you're old and settled you can think back to these times with fondness.

all i do is peel money and touch bitches