stupid first world problems you're dealing with

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  On 2/21/2016 at 7:16 PM, Perezvon said:

 

  On 2/21/2016 at 3:27 PM, mokz said:

Why the fuck is it so hard to name things? Tracks, software, pets, short stories, characters... And the names seem always so dumb in retrospect.

Let your subconscious take care of it maybe. My pre and post sleep thoughts have always helped me a great deal at naming tunes for a release. As for wip names, just use a number and perhaps a theme/series name. For example I'm naming everything "Steakhouse #number" these days.

 

Uviol, Tapr, Squeller aren't bad names

Basscadet the Hamster

  On 2/21/2016 at 6:36 PM, paranerd said:

 

  On 2/21/2016 at 3:27 PM, mokz said:

Why the fuck is it so hard to name things? Tracks, software, pets, short stories, characters... And the names seem always so dumb in retrospect.

Number them instead. Works especially great with relationships.

 

  On 2/21/2016 at 3:22 PM, luke viia said:

painful but lolsy

that's life for ya.

  On 2/21/2016 at 8:09 PM, mokz said:

Basscadet the Hamster

Back when I had about 20 pet rats I had a small female dumbo called Perlence

lolita

  On 2/21/2016 at 7:12 PM, paranerd said:

 

  On 2/21/2016 at 6:55 PM, delet... said:

Lol, I'm not sure I'd want a dog called number two, would remind me of having to pick up after him every day, not to mention calling for him may some how psychically encourage increased passage evacuation, And then imagine the embarassment down the local park having to shout. NUMBA TWO, HIAR BOI.

 

 

Other than that I can see the logic despite the pitfalls, I don't have a problem where I am later put off by what I've named things, so I'm all good. And if you think about it, what you named it stands as a testament to the time, where your head was at in its connection to the creative flow., it's kind of part of the act of writing the song.

I think yelling 'NUMBA TWO, HIAR BOI' outside your front door would be hilarious.

 

This is fun:

 

http://www.behindthename.com/random/random.php?number=2&gender=u&surname=&all=yes

 

I got 'Ekenedilichukwu Rain'

 

First name it came up with was Nikephoros Sascha, with both our names it's like the surname is first. Mine is sort of yiddish greek, i'm ok with that. Yours is sort of from the american indian tribes, but like a movie star. Featuring Rain Ekenedilichukwu, as a lost youth finding his heart in middle america.

  On 2/22/2016 at 1:25 AM, Redruth said:

lolita

Calls the fbi. heh.

Freezing rain again on the roads. Fuck this shit.

Oh, were we talking about pet names? Wilford. (if Persian cat)

there have been these signs looking for this dog up the river for some time now, a perky little black and white collie cross.

unfortunately my housemate found the dog in the river at the weekend. very sad.

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so there's this grrl back from uni, I had a huge obsessive crush on here like 8 years ago, she had a boyfriend and we never had anything tho. She liked me but more like friend zone, and for me it was always this super intense, conflicted desire. You know how that can feel terrible yet great...?

Now... I'm in a relationship, with a different lady whom I also know back from the same design-college, we all studied together. Current relationship has been going for 1.5 years. I love her, we trust each other and things are usually fine.

So my girlfriend told me that said earlier girl moved to the city recently, plus she's not with her ex anymore (which was a long relationship that lasted 13 years or something) - and I can't fucking sleep & stuff. Actually texted her to meet for a beer just because shit is bothering me a lot and I'm literally shaking and feeling weird, thinking if making a move or not. Of course not! But yes! But not! It's like my brain is playing tricks on me and I can't control emotions & I just keep refreshing the Twitter feed to just numb the brain.... I mean I know what the right thing would be, just be friends and stuff, but.........

WAT DO

^ and it's not like making a move would have a high probability of hot seks, every earlier attempts with this person led to rejection which I'm sure some fucked-up part of me is actually looking for... not her fault tho, I mean she was just loyal to her ex & maybe just doesn't share these feeling of attraction.

every time this woman has appeared in my life it has been super intense emotions and I need them to stop, it's just too much,

  On 2/22/2016 at 6:47 PM, phling said:

so there's this grrl back from uni, I had a huge obsessive crush on here like 8 years ago, she had a boyfriend and we never had anything tho. She liked me but more like friend zone, and for me it was always this super intense, conflicted desire. You know how that can feel terrible yet great...?

 

Now... I'm in a relationship, with a different lady whom I also know back from the same design-college, we all studied together. Current relationship has been going for 1.5 years. I love her, we trust each other and things are usually fine.

 

So my girlfriend told me that said earlier girl moved to the city recently, plus she's not with her ex anymore (which was a long relationship that lasted 13 years or something) - and I can't fucking sleep & stuff. Actually texted her to meet for a beer just because shit is bothering me a lot and I'm literally shaking and feeling weird, thinking if making a move or not. Of course not! But yes! But not! It's like my brain is playing tricks on me and I can't control emotions & I just keep refreshing the Twitter feed to just numb the brain.... I mean I know what the right thing would be, just be friends and stuff, but.........

WAT DO

I've been there.

There's not really a straight answer for this though. You're going to do what you're going to do, your heart will take you there.

You might even do the "wrong" thing (you'll decide if it's wrong in a few years looking back), but hell, it's part of living life.

There's a reason you're responding so strongly to her. Maybe all it will take is a move and some rejection to give closure? Maybe she'll give you a shot and you'll live happily ever after? Who knows!

thanks - yea the last part - it always felt like I had to get to the bottom of these intense feelings like there must be a reason right?... it was the most intense during the college days, and I basically told her all about it, which felt like the right thing to do.

In retrospect, I made her part of something which she probably didn't want, or maybe it was some kind of subconscious game where we both played out our roles, dunno....

Anyway there must be a reason for these emotions or maybe not, but there must be a way to stop them.

I don't want to mess things up with my girlfriend, that would be just mean and I couldn't make peace with myself over this.

a paranoid conspiracy nut is complaining about my avatar creation skills on twitter

More curiously, why did your current girl tell you about the other girl moving into town and her current relationship status? Is she testing/tempting you?

Either that, or she seriously trusts you and considers such information not dangerous.

Stuff like this makes me glad to be asexual.

Pretty sure it's the latter or maybe both... my gf knows about the earlier crush on other girl. She trusts me, and she is very sensitive to nonverbal signaling... there is no way I could hide any sexual shenanigans from her, I'm not a good liar & would feel super bad. The last days have been weird between us, probably she feels that something is up

  On 2/22/2016 at 7:09 PM, phling said:

thanks - yea the last part - it always felt like I had to get to the bottom of these intense feelings like there must be a reason right?... it was the most intense during the college days, and I basically told her all about it, which felt like the right thing to do.

In retrospect, I made her part of something which she probably didn't want, or maybe it was some kind of subconscious game where we both played out our roles, dunno....

 

Anyway there must be a reason for these emotions or maybe not, but there must be a way to stop them.

I don't want to mess things up with my girlfriend, that would be just mean and I couldn't make peace with myself over this.

Yeah it's definitely important to be honest and straightforward with your girl.

What are you going to do??

dunno - today has been digging in, watching porn...

but yea gotta be straight with my boo, just need to calm down somehow, get the bees out the stomach

just meet up with this girl, chat for a bit, remain calm, and when she goes to the loo put an oversized black dildo in her beer and disappear from her life forever.

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