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We two can't fuck?? 

  On 7/13/2020 at 6:05 PM, dingformung said:

Just to avoid any confusion about age of consent being listed as 14 in Germany. You must be under 21 to be allowed to sleep with someone under 18 and over 14, legally.

Also in Finland the kind of "unlimited" sex only applies if you're over 18. 16 has some caveats, like it can't be prostitution or with somebody who is in a "parental role" with the person, doesn't have to be a biological parent. Prostitution is legal in Finland if both parties are 18yo or older, as long as there is no human trafficking or procuring involved, so there are no legal brothels in Finland like in Germany.

  On 7/13/2020 at 1:57 AM, dingformung said:

The youngest socially acceptable age of a person to have sex / a relationship with without it being weird is your age divided by two plus seven (with 14 being the minimum age)

That rule stops when you're 40 though.

  On 7/13/2020 at 7:06 PM, milkface said:

That rule stops when you're 40 though.

I'd say it stops at 30. After that you should be pretty much an adult and more concerned with other power dynamics in play like wealth and income difference, social status and authority.

  On 7/13/2020 at 7:12 PM, zkom said:

I'd say it stops at 30. After that you should be pretty much an adult and more concerned with other power dynamics in play like wealth and income difference, social status and authority.

Oh for sure. I'm aware of a couple that have 13 year age gap between them but I would never condone it.

  On 7/13/2020 at 7:06 PM, milkface said:

That rule stops when you're 40 though.

Why? A woman that's 40 being a couple with a man under the age of 27 would indeed get some weird looks. I guess men do have a bit more freedom here as usual. I personally don't think that everyone should always act within the bounds of social acceptance, but I do think that the equation still works above 40. How much importance you give social acceptability is your own choice.

  On 7/13/2020 at 7:12 PM, zkom said:

I'd say it stops at 30. After that you should be pretty much an adult and more concerned with other power dynamics in play like wealth and income difference, social status and authority.

A lot of people don't think that way, though. You have a relatively modern view, which I share, but don't feel the majority shares. But there might be cultural differences.

  On 7/13/2020 at 6:38 PM, zkom said:

Also in Finland the kind of "unlimited" sex only applies if you're over 18.

"Unlimited sex" sounds like a promising broadband deal, until you read the terms and conditions and realise fair use applies and they cap your speed, and you get a crap connection coverage in your area. Now you're stuck for 12 or 18 months legally bound to a fucking contract that you can't get out of, and having to ocassionaly wank to your neighbour's wife until he realises and blocks you.

  On 7/13/2020 at 7:14 PM, dingformung said:

Why? A woman that's 40 being a couple with a man under the age of 27 would indeed get some weird looks. I guess men do have a bit more freedom here as usual. I personally don't think that everyone should always act within the bounds of social acceptance, but I do think that the equation still works above 40. How much importance you give social acceptability is your own choice.

A lot of people don't think that way, though. You have a relatively modern view, which I share, but don't feel the majority shares. But there might be cultural differences.

Because it's fucking weird. That's why. Besides because of a minor generational gap you may not even get along, you grew up watching different TV shows, listening to different music etc.

+ I only said the 40 thing because that's what I've heard so many different people say that that rule stops at 40 so I say the same thing.

Nobody would blame a 46-year-old man to have sex with a 30-year-old woman. But maybe the woman would get stigmatised with "daddy issues" or something like that, and perhaps the guy with "mid life crisis" or some bullshit. Men have more freedom than women. So maybe you are onto something if you say that the applicability of this equation is more dependant on the social circle you are in the higher the age, and perhaps 40 actually is a threshold at which it is safe to say that the rule doesn't apply in the majority of social circles any longer. Maybe in Germany that threshold would be slightly higher since Germany is a mainly conservative country but a bit less conservative than the UK. I would say, the more conservative the social bubble you are in the lower the threshold at which the rule by tendency doesn't apply any longer.

so if i go to the Netherlands and engage in legal prostitution with a 18 years old am i going to be stigmatized? :(

Yes, you'll be a horebukk for life. It's a Norwegian derogatory term for men having sex with prostitutes.

yes

Horebukk 4 lif3 dudes

  On 7/13/2020 at 9:14 PM, Tim_J said:

so if i go to the Netherlands and engage in legal prostitution with a 18 years old am i going to be stigmatized?

blue light means tranny

Yes

all those rules die when my dick gets hard...

When dick gets hard all I wanna fuck is dead overweight 2 year old tranny moms

  On 7/13/2020 at 10:07 PM, dingformung said:

When dick gets hard all I wanna fuck is dead overweight 2 year old tranny moms

  On 7/13/2020 at 10:14 PM, zkom said:

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