stupid first world problems you're dealing with

lol !

Apparently things are over. Did not want to get to that point but last messages we exchanged strongly sounded like a break up.

Going to spend the night probably playing DotA with a friend of mine I guess !

  On 3/6/2016 at 9:44 PM, StocKo said:

lol !

 

Apparently things are over. Did not want to get to that point but last messages we exchanged strongly sounded like a break up.

Going to spend the night probably playing DotA with a friend of mine I guess !

Sounds like an active volcano rather than a relationship. Take care of yourself man. Now's your chance!! Study hard and cook yourself some good food.

Had a great idea to make my novel slightly better and worked to implement the idea. Went to upload the new version and...Amazon says it's too close to publication to upload new versions.

So my book will release with a few typos, missing the new chapter breaks I wrote and a sentence that ends halfway through.

edit: the plus is that no-one so far has pre-ordered it, so no-one will notice

the downside is that no-one has pre-ordered it

  On 3/2/2016 at 1:27 PM, Zephyr_Nova said:

Fell asleep before midnight, so now I'm wide awake at 3:30am. Everything is bullshit.

The above has been updated for current FWP... although technically it's 4:10 now. The wake-up itself was 3:30. I really need to just keep myself up until at least 2am to prevent this from happening.

i accidentally put through the wrong time sheets for someone at work because i was too busy daydreaming about dick cakes.

  On 3/6/2016 at 10:50 PM, Bechuga said:

Had a great idea to make my novel slightly better and worked to implement the idea. Went to upload the new version and...Amazon says it's too close to publication to upload new versions.

So my book will release with a few typos, missing the new chapter breaks I wrote and a sentence that ends halfway through.

 

 

 

edit: the plus is that no-one so far has pre-ordered it, so no-one will notice

the downside is that no-one has pre-ordered it

amazon

Dick cakes ?! What in blue blazes are dick cakes ?!

it's a cake, in the shape of a dick.

it came to me (no pun intended) when i was thinking about the dilema earlier (which i can't be bothered to find) where i suggested "build her a cake"

or was that somewhere else.

can't remember.

anyway.

  On 3/6/2016 at 9:51 PM, maitake said:

 

  On 3/6/2016 at 9:44 PM, StocKo said:

lol !

 

Apparently things are over. Did not want to get to that point but last messages we exchanged strongly sounded like a break up.

Going to spend the night probably playing DotA with a friend of mine I guess !

 

Sounds like an active volcano rather than a relationship. Take care of yourself man. Now's your chance!! Study hard and cook yourself some good food.

 

Thanks mate.

I saw her today, had to explain to her, face to face, why things wouldn't work this time. It was fucking heart-breaking to do, it felt awful. She told me she did not see that coming, then she told me to allow her another chance (problem is, I gave her loads of chances), that this time she would change for real, then she told me I was doing a mistake...

Stayed determined, really thinks it was the best thing to do even if it was painful for both of us. I did not want to try building something with her again with the risk of this situation repeating itself again and again and again...

Currently feel like an awful person tho.

I know what you're going through, it truly does suck. Godspeed my dude. I just left a 5 year relationship (that was nowhere near as tumultuous as yours, but which had become stagnant and in which I realized I did not love her the way she hoped), and she's reacted the same way your partner did. Trying to negotiate, feeling as if she never saw it coming, telling me I am making a huge mistake (possible)...

Staying determined in our convictions is all we can do, really. We made our choices for a reason, and it sounds like each of us did it with both people's long-term best interest in mind. Have faith that you did the right thing.

Feeling like an awful person will pass - seems that's a natural part of causing a heart to break, of course. But we will all heal, and you are not an awful person.

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  On 3/7/2016 at 9:12 PM, luke viia said:

I know what you're going through, it truly does suck. Godspeed my dude. I just left a 5 year relationship (that was nowhere near as tumultuous as yours, but which had become stagnant and in which I realized I did not love her the way she hoped), and she's reacted the same way your partner did. Trying to negotiate, feeling as if she never saw it coming, telling me I am making a huge mistake (possible)...

 

Staying determined in our convictions is all we can do, really. We made our choices for a reason, and it sounds like each of us did it with both people's long-term best interest in mind. Have faith that you did the right thing.

 

Feeling like an awful person will pass - seems that's a natural part of causing a heart to break, of course. But we will all heal, and you are not an awful person.

Thanks mate, really heart warming post. Well I'm trying to stay calm and ignore the hateful SMS I've been receiving the past few hours mostly because yeah, I think I did the right thing - and the most reasonable one. It's probably harder to be the one who sees what's wrong. Takes a lot of courage.

Good luck with what your dealing with as well

Tried to make homemade matcha (green tea) frappuccino but the ice cubes were too damn big and it came out a watery half-assed green sherbet ice mess. Oh well. Still tastes OK I guess.

  On 3/7/2016 at 11:42 PM, StocKo said:

 

  On 3/7/2016 at 9:12 PM, luke viia said:

I know what you're going through, it truly does suck. Godspeed my dude. I just left a 5 year relationship (that was nowhere near as tumultuous as yours, but which had become stagnant and in which I realized I did not love her the way she hoped), and she's reacted the same way your partner did. Trying to negotiate, feeling as if she never saw it coming, telling me I am making a huge mistake (possible)...

 

Staying determined in our convictions is all we can do, really. We made our choices for a reason, and it sounds like each of us did it with both people's long-term best interest in mind. Have faith that you did the right thing.

 

Feeling like an awful person will pass - seems that's a natural part of causing a heart to break, of course. But we will all heal, and you are not an awful person.

 

Thanks mate, really heart warming post. Well I'm trying to stay calm and ignore the hateful SMS I've been receiving the past few hours mostly because yeah, I think I did the right thing - and the most reasonable one. It's probably harder to be the one who sees what's wrong. Takes a lot of courage.

 

Good luck with what your dealing with as well

 

Ouch! Still sounds like you did the right thing. Sometimes people will react and realize they need to work on themselves, and sometimes they'll just throw a hissy fit and do fuck all, maybe find another person to leech off of. Either way, it's not your job on this planet to fix someone. Maybe the conditions of your relationship will appear very different now in retrospect. Cheers man

my next work outing is on my birthday. i have to go, i'm trying to get a job with the client.

If it's on a weeknight, you should just schedule your bday shenanigans for the weekend.

My FWP is that a few months ago I spent a lot of money on a bag. It has great embroidering on the custom art that I designed and it's a nice, durable bag, but it's fucking enormous. It's great for groceries and for traveling, but I need to buy another bag that's more pragmatic for my day-to-day business.

Dear harold d. doublename, we thank you for taking the time to interview at Shitsville Academy... blah blah blah

  On 3/9/2016 at 3:52 PM, doublename said:

Dear harold d. doublename, we thank you for taking the time to interview at Shitsville Academy... blah blah blah

Pro Tools 12's video engine is the worst fucking thing. It's so finicky with what codec of video it wants to play correctly. Even if I convert it to what usually works, sometimes it will just not play at all. Wasting my doggamn time when I already don't have enough to do my work properly.

i've eaten too much free cake from work. now i am uncomfortably bloated.

Some absolute cunt came into my garden and cut off this tree! I don't even know who it was!

can't get rid of the biggest shit i have ever done, totally standing upright in the toilet

  On 3/11/2016 at 5:12 PM, JUVITH SITH said:

can't get rid of the biggest shit i have ever done, totally standing upright in the toilet

how do i get the new content to show all new content?

i clicked on items i participated in and can't get it back so now i have to troll through all the different threads to see what is new

I was about to have my shower, but then two ambulances pulled up outside my apartment, and medics entered my building with a stretcher. Now I'm waiting to see who the unfortunate tenant is. I really hope it isn't the nice elderly lady that always chats with me in the elevator.

I'm supposed to help my roommate fix something on the roof and it's raining like a mother fucker out there.